Just an ROM ceremony will do. End of the day you are only marrying the woman and not the whole community. If the wife and in-laws don't like then just too bad. MGTOW.
The globally televised fairy tale romance wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana end in a divorce. So what the heck of holding a grandiose wedding reception. Just go for ROM then go home and Fornification Under the Consent of the King (FUCK).
One more special highlight for the Malay wedding is the kudang kepang performance. Such performance cant be held in enclose area like in a hotel. Too bad kudang kepang was banned in Sinkieland. If not @nightsafari would have the chance to witness the power of the unseen!