sidetrack a bit from this case above
once in a while i go volunteer deliver essentials like rice etc etc to 1 and 2 room flat poor
then when i help to put the items into their flat, i see that they have stacks of rice and essential items remain untouched for weeks and months.
i also don't know what to say
obviously, the "help" they need and the "help" that is given are mismatched
anyway, me just a coolie volunteer
just close one eye do my "job"