Redditer : Ex wants me to transfer our BTO to his new gf

[Tragedeigh]

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Ex wants me to transfer our BTO to his new gf​

Hear me out

I’m 26F, he’s 29M. We were tgt for 7 yrs since JC days, and gave everything to this relationship, my heart, my soul, my youth... even my body, everything also give liao. We applied for a BTO together and waiting for completion. I was so excited thinking about our future home. Then out of nowhere last June, he tells me he wants to break up. Apparently he said he lost feelings, but we are still physically intimate from last June until now. But then he dropped the biggest bombshell yesterday. He actually asked me if we can settle the BTO by transferring my share to him. I cannot believe it. He’s already with someone else? And he wants me to just hand over our future home so he can live there with her? I feel so used and discarded. Like I was just a placeholder until something better came along.

I’m currently a mess. Cannot eat, cannot sleep, just keep crying. How do I even begin to move on from this level of betrayal? How to deal with the BTO legal side and the heartbreak at the same time?

 

[mojito]

No. Get marry with ex next day divorce. Split the proceeds 50-50. Clean and simple. Remember to praise the Pap.

 

[searcher1]

She should also post her photo & immediately SIMPS will run to the rescue !

 

[uniboi]

No. Get marry with ex next day divorce. Split the proceeds 50-50. Clean and simple. Remember to praise the Pap.

If he don’t want to marry and then divorce and spilt 50-50, then she die die don’t give up her share to the ex, he also cannot do anything until HDB loan payment and key comes that they have to produce marriage certificate and if cannot then BTO unit goes back to HDB. The best solution for both and revenge on the ex for cheating on her

 

[Dreamliner787]

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Ex wants me to transfer our BTO to his new gf​

Hear me out

I’m 26F, he’s 29M. We were tgt for 7 yrs since JC days, and gave everything to this relationship, my heart, my soul, my youth... even my body, everything also give liao. We applied for a BTO together and waiting for completion. I was so excited thinking about our future home. Then out of nowhere last June, he tells me he wants to break up. Apparently he said he lost feelings, but we are still physically intimate from last June until now. But then he dropped the biggest bombshell yesterday. He actually asked me if we can settle the BTO by transferring my share to him. I cannot believe it. He’s already with someone else? And he wants me to just hand over our future home so he can live there with her? I feel so used and discarded. Like I was just a placeholder until something better came along.

I’m currently a mess. Cannot eat, cannot sleep, just keep crying. How do I even begin to move on from this level of betrayal? How to deal with the BTO legal side and the heartbreak at the same time?

How to transfer her share to him? This one not private condo, cannot suka suka. Single name cannot buy BTO leh. Gong similanjiao?

 

[tobelightlight]

Women-free life is the best. No need to deal with bto and other fuck up PAP manipulative polices. You go by their policies, you are fucked.

 

[Tragedeigh]

How to transfer her share to him? This one not private condo, cannot suka suka. Single name cannot buy BTO leh. Gong similanjiao?

I also say. At most take the flat first, then file divorce. Then get court approval to dispose flat. Then split 50 50 proceeds

 

[tobelightlight]

This reminds me of an associate who confined to me about his soon to be impending divorce.

Share with me about his situation that lead to this. I try to think of suggestions that can help him save his marriage situation.

The problem is that he got vaxxed because of his wife as he do not want to take it in the first place. Due to his wife's obsession with travelling, he obliged.

So what did he get for having a pussy? Tons of issues and a jabbed mRNA body.

Heng har.. women-free life is the best x100.
Jab free, women-free, problem free, peace and quiet, freedom and save a lot of money for myself to spend on anything I want without issues and without consideration of a pussy mood and approval. All on my own terms and preference.

 

[millim6868]

Just breakup, return the bto, so that fucker don get it

 

[tobelightlight]

Just breakup, return the bto, so that fucker don get it

i think this is the best way to go for it. but she has to give up the money deposit if she chip in any part of the share of it.

 

[Dreamliner787]

I also say. At most take the flat first, then file divorce. Then get court approval to dispose flat. Then split 50 50 proceeds

That will take at least 5 years because both parties need to fulfill minimum period of occupation, by which time the new flame becomes old wax, and the vicious cycle continues.

 

[Tragedeigh]

That will take at least 5 years because both parties need to fulfill minimum period of occupation, by which time the new flame becomes old wax, and the vicious cycle continues.

Can't the court order an exemption of MOP?

 

[Dreamliner787]

Can't the court order an exemption of MOP?

Why should the Court do so ? Then everyone will follow the same template and start flipping BTOs like pratas.