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Ex wants me to transfer our BTO to his new gf
Hear me outI’m 26F, he’s 29M. We were tgt for 7 yrs since JC days, and gave everything to this relationship, my heart, my soul, my youth... even my body, everything also give liao. We applied for a BTO together and waiting for completion. I was so excited thinking about our future home. Then out of nowhere last June, he tells me he wants to break up. Apparently he said he lost feelings, but we are still physically intimate from last June until now. But then he dropped the biggest bombshell yesterday. He actually asked me if we can settle the BTO by transferring my share to him. I cannot believe it. He’s already with someone else? And he wants me to just hand over our future home so he can live there with her? I feel so used and discarded. Like I was just a placeholder until something better came along.
I’m currently a mess. Cannot eat, cannot sleep, just keep crying. How do I even begin to move on from this level of betrayal? How to deal with the BTO legal side and the heartbreak at the same time?
