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confessing to him next year
I need advice!hi everyone!
(this is a burner acct, might delete post ltr)
i (24f) am currently doing work-study. i've been eyecandying (or so i thought) on my classmate (23m) for about a year now, i've liked him since the first day of school. of course, i do not let this crush thing affect my life that much bc i also have other commitments to fulfill as well. however recently, the thought him has flooded my brain to the point where im starting to think most of the time which is both bad and good for me.
i only see him once a week when it's the school term but don't see him at all when it's school holidays as we are from 2 different companies. in school, we are not technically close as we have our diff cliques but every morning, we would have breakfast tgt w 2 of my other friends and we would sometimes talk. thats only if we are in campus but if we are not, we won't speak at all so ya lol.. i wld say that it is progress bc before then, we wouldn't even speak at all.
to me, not only is he good looking but he seems like someone who is mature and his work ethic is attractive to me bc hes always wanting to be his best even when his efforts are already good enough
we are graduating next year and i think i should confess my feelings for him - not to see whether he likes me or not bc ik he wouldn't go for someone like me but i want to express my feelings for him anyways as after graduation, we won't be seeing each other anymore so why not take the risk? but is it a good idea? i have alr written a letter and plan to give to him a week before grad so... pls give me ur thoughts