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Rachel Lim - a face which everyone loves to slap

syed putra

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I don't think it should be taken literally..I just think that if a women accept marriage she has a responsibility and a duty to support her husband. And sextifying his needs.... n women want it too. If the woman don't want the responsibility n duty..than don't Marry.
This women bonking the boyfriend outside of wedlock. Nothing binding.
 

Cottonmouth

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Another silly girl who thinks she can help raise AWAREness about 渣男 and 臭男人. :rolleyes:

You picked the guy, it's totally your responsibility.

If her father, brother and boyfriend all want to slap her, maybe the problem lies with her..
 

blackmondy

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Apparently her content strategy failed badly this time with painful consequences.....HAHAHAHA !
 

Hanslesley73

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If her father, brother and boyfriend all want to slap her, maybe the problem lies with her..
You apparently do not read much about psychology, do you? Victims of abuse usually have a tendency to choose suitors that fit into the abusive environment that they grew up/is familiar with. It takes a strong personality and years of healing to break that pattern. Most of the victims will be stuck in that kind of relationship, choosing a man to marry that fits into the same mindset as her abusive family.
However, there are also quite a number of survivors that managed to break the pattern. These survivors would usually distance themselves from the abusive family by taking a PPO against the violent perpetrator or relocate to another country.
 
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Balls2U

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m&ds got it right..I might consider converting
Obedient Wives Club to offer sex lessons on how to pleasure husbands
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RAWANG: Sex lessons to help wives “serve their husbands better than a first-class prostitute” will be among the courses provided by the Obedient Wives Club (OWC) to help promote harmonious marriages and counter social ills.
Its vice-president Dr Rohaya Mohamad said it was time sexual prowess took a front seat in marriage beyond the traditional “good mother or good cook” roles.
“A good or religious wife is also sexually good in bed,” she told reporters after the launch of the club's Malaysian chapter at the Perangsang Templer Golf Club Saturday.
A husband who was kept happy in the bedroom would have no reason to stray or seek out prostitutes or indulge in other social vices, said Dr Rohaya, who was a medical doctor for 15 years in the Health Ministry before taking a leadership role in the club.
“The family institution is protected and we can curb social ills like prostitution, domestic violence, human trafficking and abandoned babies,” she said, adding that she believed these problems stemmed from unfulfilled sexual needs at home.
Dr Rohaya, said the club would also offer counselling and lecture sessions for wives, husbands or couples.
She said the Malaysian chapter had around 800 members while its Jordan chapter had 200, with the Indonesian chapter set to be launched on June 19 in Jakarta.
When questioned whether wives should remain obedient if their husbands still abused or cheated on them with prostitutes, Dr Rohaya said everyone was subject to God's rule.
“God has his ways and is fair to all. A husband is also subject to God's rule, meaning he can go to hell too. But a woman must be a good wife to the end,” she said, adding that according to Islam, women should pray, fast during Ramadhan, protect their chastity and obey their husbands if they wanted to enter Heaven.
OWC and the Polygamy Club was formed by Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd, an organisation founded by former members of the banned Al-Arqam Islamic group.
A mass wedding reception for eight couples was also held during the launch.
The brides were aged 18 to 22 while the grooms were aged 20 to 48. All are OWC members and agreed that disobedient wives were the cause of many social ills.
Related Stories: Wives can curb social ills like prostitution by being obedient and alluring'

If in Sinkieland, our AWARE will surely oppose this as being sexist.
 

Cottonmouth

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You apparently do not read much about psychology, do you? Victims of abuse usually have a tendency to choose suitors that fit into the abusive environment that they grew up/is familiar with. It takes a strong personality and years of healing to break that pattern. Most of the victims will be stuck in that kind of relationship, choosing a man to marry that fits into the same mindset as her abusive family.
However, there are also quite a number of survivors that managed to break the pattern. These survivors would usually distance themselves from the abusive family by taking a PPO against the violent perpetrator or relocate to another country.

That's not the point, the boyfriend aside.

Why did the civil servant father abuse her?
Why did the insurance agent brother join in as well?
Why is her mother not on her side either.
When her news appeared on papers, mother implied that it's her fault that she got bashed by the doctor boyfriend.
 

Hanslesley73

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That's not the point, the boyfriend aside.

Why did the civil servant father abuse her?
Why did the insurance agent brother join in as well?
Why is her mother not on her side either.
When her news appeared on papers, mother implied that it's her fault that she got bashed by the doctor boyfriend.
There are abusive family like this in the world. It is called scapegoating.
For example, I have a Muslim friend who was born into this kind of family. When she was born, her mother rejected her bcoz she was the third daughter(her mom wanted a son so badly from the first conception). She was hated by her mom from young solely coz of her gender. Her mom did finally get a baby boy in her fourth pregnancy. She continued to be hated and physically abused by her family throughout her childhood n teenage yrs. She was made to clean up her siblings’ dishes, etc.Her bday was never celebrated, unlike the rest of her siblings. The siblings were encouraged to bully her, her dad n bro often punched, kick n beat her up. Eventually, her dad molested her when she was 19.
The abuse did not stop there. Her siblings still wanted to continue with this scapegoating tradition, even teaching her nieces n nephews to resent her too and write nasty things on the internet abt her coz by now she has learned to distant herself from her toxic family. There are families like this, which is definitely not normal. It is a very challenging situation for any human being stuck with a family like this.
 

Hypocrite-The

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There are abusive family like this in the world. It is called scapegoating.
For example, I have a Muslim friend who was born into this kind of family. When she was born, her mother rejected her bcoz she was the third daughter(her mom wanted a son so badly from the first conception). She was hated by her mom from young solely coz of her gender. Her mom did finally get a baby boy in her fourth pregnancy. She continued to be hated and physically abused by her family throughout her childhood n teenage yrs. She was made to clean up her siblings’ dishes, etc.Her bday was never celebrated, unlike the rest of her siblings. The siblings were encouraged to bully her, her dad n bro often punched, kick n beat her up. Eventually, her dad molested her when she was 19.
The abuse did not stop there. Her siblings still wanted to continue with this scapegoating tradition, even teaching her nieces n nephews to resent her too and write nasty things on the internet abt her coz by now she has learned to distant herself from her toxic family. There are families like this, which is definitely not normal. It is a very challenging situation for any human being stuck with a family like this.
That is why I have always advocated for breeding licenses. And when singkieland had stop at 2...this rarely happened as not many were allowed to breed. Now u see trailer park trash having 4 or 5 kids so spare can throw away etc. Human life is cheap....and overated n when trailer park trash are involved...it's even worst
 

Loofydralb

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If I had a daughter and anyone does this to her, you WILL have a short and painful life. Even if it takes years to wait for your release. I have nothing to loose.
 

laksaboy

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If I had a daughter and anyone does this to her, you WILL have a short and painful life. Even if it takes years to wait for your release. I have nothing to loose.

If your daughter picks this kind of guy and cheerfully opens her legs for him, clearly something's terribly wrong with your parenting. Look in the mirror and think hard about this before you unleash your fists of fury. :wink:
 
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