Poor Parents Can't Afford Tuition for Kids

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PAPER CHASE
Skewing a level field

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MS PHYLLIS Christe's letter ('A matter of means, not just genes'; Jan 31) raises a pertinent point about an increasingly uneven playing field in the paper chase, which appears to favour the more affluent.
As a student of a decent neighbourhood school who made it to an elite junior college, I have experienced first-hand how students have such vastly different access to resources, especially in terms of academic aid.
In my neighbourhood secondary school, most students were from lower-income families and there were those who strove hard to pursue academic excellence, knowing that it was the most realistic way to climb up the social ladder in the future.
Nearing the exams, many would unfailingly seek extra lessons from teachers, settling for every scrap of free time the teachers could spare after schooling hours.
Tuition was the next viable option for those who really wanted the extra push. However, many had parents who simply could not afford it.
Many turned to community tuition programmes offered by the Singapore Indian Development Association, Chinese Development Assistance Council and Mendaki.
While helpful, such programmes were compromised by an inflexible schedule that often clashed with the students' co-curricular activities (CCAs).
Many students could not afford to ignore CCAs because an excellent record allowed them to hive off two points from the raw or gross scores of their O-level exam results.
Class sizes of the community tuition programmes also averaged around 15 to 20, so personal attention was diluted.
The environment in the elite junior college I attended was the opposite. Many of my peers were from more affluent families and could readily afford private tuition.
They did not have to contend with inflexible tuition hours and enjoyed personal coaching by quality tutors such as professors and former teachers.
So, in my experience, excelling academically appears to be becoming as much a matter of means as it may be of genes. Being able to afford and have access to private tuition seem to tilt the balance in favour of the more affluent, skewing what may once have been a more level playing field for all students.
Lee Min Shing
 
It's the real world and fact of life. This writer has hit the nail. I remember when I was still schooling I had to rely solely on lecture notes because I did not have money to buy the recommended textbooks. Not that lecture notes were insufficient, but maybe I was not that bright and there were things that I could not understand and wanted to have more readings. The library was pathetic and it had only 2 copies of the book which were practically never seem to be available throughout the year. And those were the years where you just have to copy your own notes during lectures and either you have a good brain to understand and absorb fast, or you just got to copy fast first and then digest later. And FREE tuition was almost unheard of. Nevertheless, I managed to scrape through, with a poor grade in that subject of course. :(
 
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I know this is an age-old issue but I still feel bitter about it when I think about my own experience.

When I was in school, I struggled in my studies. I had a classmate who was the same. We found comfort in each other's lousy marks, until one day her parents decided to get her tuition. She went on and on and told me how good her tutor was and told me to get tuition too. They lived in a bungalow. My parents could not afford tuition. My dad was just a lowly taxi driver and my mum a housewife. So, what naturally happened? OF COURSE she started scoring better while I lagged behind. Trust me, you feel it because it's so unfair! I felt like a complete failure and resented my situation. I was a young teenage girl so excuse my immaturity.

Recently, we got in touch on FB. Found out she went to uni, has a good career at some HR company and married to a doctor. I would like to say I have grown up and can see things maturely, but come one, really? It's like once you're behind, you're BEHIND. Forget about catching up. We should just live with what we have and accept life IS unfair. If you are rich, you CAN afford more. If you are not, you have to just work harder.
 
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