mean spirited ppl that set new conditions hoping you will fail.

[ilovesingapore]

Chances and more often than not, these people are unable to attain the goals u set and just envious that you can focus and work towards yours.

I find it common here(in Singapore) to see more people to try to pull you down(to their level) rather than push you up. U will start to filter out those that can make it and those that cannot..

Usually they will start by trying to reason with you on why u should not do that and if that fails get angry and tell you that u are stupid to embark on anything like that ..

we have a choice
for those who wish us well
thank you and move on
for those who wish us ill
ignore them, but still move on
cheers!!!

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Thank you. Don't mind me correcting, if you use krup it means you are man so your last word should continue to be krup not kah, kah is use by charboh.

Fucktard is a ladyboy that's why....
Schizo also from switching between too many clones.

 

[Froggy]

Fucktard is a ladyboy that's why....
Schizo also from switching between too many clones.

Oh I did not noticed krup in front ka later = 不男不女 wahahahahahahahaha that's funny KRUP!

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

First if one has some targets or aspiration to achieve something it's personal why should one share it with anyone whether its mean spirited and kind spirited?

Secondly lets say really want to share with someone surely one is mature enough and able to discern if the other person is mean or kind spirited right? I mean surely one will not share with anyone right?

Thirdly, okay let's say in SBF has many mean spirited characters surely all of us are faceless people in here why would one share something to a faceless person right?

Sawasdee krup to all.

Depends la sometimes you post say on facebook or you just causally mention it and so on.

 

[LeMans2011]

This can be about anything. About your job, exercise etc.

The premise is like this. You set about to achieve a goal let's assume in exercise. Say you're not that fit and you want to be fit again so your target it to be able to do 6 pull ups or in your job your sales target is to say get 3 new clients per month. In each case achieveing these feats isn't eye popping but it gives you confidence and it shows that you are close to attaining your goal after all a long journey of 100km is made up of small steps.

Anyway you tell this to this mean spirited person. This person then puts up new conditions for you to attain that is rather out of reach for you not because he wants to encourage you but hopes u fail. So you tell him/her hey i have 3 new clients for this month or hey i managed to do 6 pull ups today hoping to hear some encouragement.

Mean spirited person: Chey! 6 pull ups only do 12 then come and talk la! In work place: Chey! just only 3 new clients get 10 new clients then come and talk la.

Now it's quite difficult to accomplish 6 pull ups and then hit 12 on your next target it's like going into a slow jog and then suddenly going into full sprint mode.

Any of you guys here ran into ppl like this?

I presume you are complaining about your boss, afterall who else can set goals for you? Could it be you are a poor performer?

 

[Froggy]

Depends la sometimes you post say on facebook or you just causally mention it and so on.

Yes this can be possible. Lucky I have no more facebook.

 

[tonychat]

Fucktard is a ladyboy that's why....
Schizo also from switching between too many clones.

He is in the process of transforming into a ladyboy..when the transformation is complete. He will say sawadee Ha.

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

I presume you are complaining about your boss, afterall who else can set goals for you? Could it be you are a poor performer?

Nope nothing to do with me it's what i observed i was giving examples.

Also if let's say that was my boss asking me about clients well basic psychology would tell you not to put down your employee imagine a boss telling his employee say in an insurance firm or some stock market firm eh you only got 5 contracts ah must secure 20 la needless to say your employee will not only fuck it up badly but hate you either.