As I've mentioned before, your gf/wife is your greatest enemy.
Hence you must totally dominate her mentally, physically and emotionally else you will be farked to become miserable for life.
This is actually man's instinctive mission in life - to dominate women. This principle has been around for ages since King Wen of Zhou dynasty in 1152 farking BC who invented the 64 hexagrams (六十四卦) which lay the foundation for I Ching (
易經) which mentioned Yang must always ride over Yin else there will be imbalance of power and harmony. The only exception is when you allow her to ride on top of you in bed LOL.
Yang 阳 (men) is light while Yin 阴 (women) is darkness, cunningness and evil. This is why male's organ in Chinese is called 阳器 while the female vagina is not called 阴道 for nothing.
Means wat? Means when you meddle with a pussy, you are meddling with the Dark Side LOL which explains why 女人是祸水.
Hence you must farking control this evil else sure GG. Women knew they are dark and evil by nature (due to farking female hormones) but thoroughly enjoys pwning men as simps to make them feel shiok. But once they meet a real men who is able to tame and dominate them, they jitao become wet, docile and submissive like a pussy cat. This is the way.
Ironically, once a women sense that you cannot tame nor dominate them, you'll start to lose their respect and they will treat you like a loser giving you more misery. So such men only have themselves to blame LOL. Always remember that many times esp. during dating the moment a woman opens her farking mouth, she speaks from emotions to test and gauge your response like whether you are man enough to answer properly like a real man or a guniang and has nothing to do with rationality. This is how farking dark a woman is.
Too bad these instincts get eroded once guys into the working world to start dating then get farked by women time and again to slowly lose their power. Time to wake up.
It's either you take the lead or be lead by her like a pathetic simp. No such thing as what ranjiao treating each other as 'equal' etc. LOL.
There is simply no other way.