Re: If your GF tell you honestly that she had cheated on you, will you accept and mov
One of my friends is also in a similar situation.
His secretary bride-to-be confessed that she had an affair with her boss.
She was promoted to manager when the boss ended the affair and hired a new secretary cum FB.
My friend is agonising over whether to go ahead with the wedding.
Your friend should just politely see her out of the door. There are a lot of available women in the world. She is not the only one.
Now she betrayed him because of work/promotion, she can do it again, this is much worse than betraying because of just love, etc.
Who is to say that she won't repeat this to gain another promotion in future and this action just proves her need for materialism. Just politely see her off.
A very very good friend of mine in the states had the same thing, his wife basically had an affair with her boss in finance. She became a manager and on the day my friend's dad died, dropped an SMS to him while he was away in Hong Kong for his dad funeral.
He only received the SMS when he arrived at the airport in Hong Kong. Imagine you are already so sad with news of your dad's passing and she send you SMS to tell you its over, she moved out with all her things and she is changing her phone number. I know this friend very well and she was too much, he brought her over to US to work, applied and sponsored her green card. As soon as she got it, she started having relations with her boss and he was ignorant of all this until she played him out. She even took his car and he had to be sent home by me when he returned to the states.
He was totally devastated and it took him 2-3 years to recover. We need to do what is right and move on.