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If You Ever Marry Such A Wife, You Should Kill Her Before She Dumps You and Your Kids...

AhMeng

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Singaporean Mum Abandons Sons With Ah Ma After Husband’s Accident, Kind Strangers Chip In To Help
Over 5,000 donors helped clear her bank loans.
By Arista Lim

4 Nov 2019, 5:35 pm

Daughter-In-Law Runs Away After Son’s Accident, Ah Ma Takes Care Of Grandkids Alone

It never rains but it pours.

A year after her son was seriously injured in a car accident, Ah Ma Xie’s daughter-in-law ran away, leaving her 3 young sons behind and never coming back.

Poor Ah Ma thus had to work 2 jobs to feed her grandsons, according to Lianhe Wanbao. But not all hope is lost, as donations from the public have poured in to support her.

Ah Ma takes care of grandsons singlehandedly

A car accident 10 years ago left Ah Ma Xie’s son mentally impaired and on the brink of death because of his illness.

As if the tragedy wasn’t enough of a tough blow, her son’s wife left the family, forcing Ah Ma to take care of her grandchildren alone.

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revealed that for 11 years, she worked 2 cleaning shifts, with the first shift ending at 4pm. She would then cook dinner and take a nap before rushing off for a night shift later on in the same day.

Donations help to ease burden

The financial burden proved too great for Ah Ma, who resorted to loaning money from banks. Thankfully for her, however, help was well on the way.

After Lianhao Wanbao’s report, donations poured in for Ah Ma, with two kind Samaritans helping her to clear bank loans of up to around $11,000. Even the bank made an exception by lowering the amount she had to pay from more than $10,000 to $8,800.

Another kind-hearted soul offered to give her $500 per month so that she could quit her night shift. The anonymous donors who had helped to raise the $8,800 for one of her loans also hope that she can rest more.

Her grandsons, who are studying at polytechnics and ITE, recently had their fees waived, greatly reducing their burden. The Singapore Children’s Society is also providing $300 for each grandson for their expenses.

A little from everyone goes a long way

A social worker explained that while the government has ample “safety nets”, bureaucracy can slow help down. These small efforts are more flexible and help the care system run more smoothly.

Indeed, the combined effort of many people can drastically improve someone’s life. Lianhe Wanbao claims that one of Ah Ma’s bank loans was covered by funds that about 5,000 people contributed to.

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We hope that this story inspires more to volunteer their time or donate to a worthy cause. It is better to give than to receive and we can learn a lot from helping others too.
 

congo9

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social worker explained that while the government has ample “safety nets”, bureaucracy can slow help down. These small efforts are more flexible and help the care system run more smoothly.

Is she trying to tell us Government is hell inept? Wht the fuck they see being paid so well to run the system which is slow to help?
 

jw5

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Absolutely agree and I am with you on this. :thumbsup:

Naming and shaming that woman goes a much longer way, if at least to protect the next chump she sets her eyes on.

Crowdfunding and 'Gofundme' antics do not solve the problem.
 

syed putra

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Husband must have mistreated her or mother in law nag too much forcing wife to flee. This is the harsh reality of poverty.
 

eatshitndie

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social worker explained that while the government has ample “safety nets”, bureaucracy can slow help down. These small efforts are more flexible and help the care system run more smoothly.

Is she trying to tell us Government is hell inept? Wht the fuck they see being paid so well to run the system which is slow to help?
redtape has its purpose. it’s done purposefully to tire out freeloaders from getting too addicted to welfare.
 

Hypocrite-The

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Its the husbands fault for not dying at the accident n being a burden to the family. Tat why any decent person will have a 'do not resusitate ' document signed to prevent being a burden and ensuring such things do not happen.
 

KuanTi01

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Husband must have mistreated her or mother in law nag too much forcing wife to flee. This is the harsh reality of poverty.


This is such a lame reason for abandoning one's own flesh and blood. Even if she has been mistreated and abused, she must have been heartless and stone-cold clinical to just pack up and go.
 

syed putra

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This is such a lame reason for abandoning one's own flesh and blood. Even if she has been mistreated and abused, she must have been heartless and stone-cold clinical to just pack up and go.
I have seen many fathers who abandon their family. Just walk out. Maybe because of money or other women. Who knows, they just disappeared leaving the single mother to struggle on feeding the kids.
 

KuanTi01

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I have seen many fathers who abandon their family. Just walk out. Maybe because of money or other women. Who knows, they just disappeared leaving the single mother to struggle on feeding the kids.

2 wrongs do not make a right. No doubt fathers also can be heartless and irresponsible but mothers are the ones who can give birth. In such situations, more eyebrows are raised if the mother abandons her own children. If the father does that, he is still a cad but not many will bat an eyelid. This is the reality.
 

mojito

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2 wrongs do not make a right. No doubt fathers also can be heartless and irresponsible but mothers are the ones who can give birth. In such situations, more eyebrows are raised if the mother abandons her own children. If the father does that, he is still a cad but not many will bat an eyelid. This is the reality.
This is the double standards u mean. :cautious:
 

laksaboy

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2 wrongs do not make a right. No doubt fathers also can be heartless and irresponsible but mothers are the ones who can give birth. In such situations, more eyebrows are raised if the mother abandons her own children. If the father does that, he is still a cad but not many will bat an eyelid. This is the reality.

In a feminazi society with weak/effeminate men as their accomplices, only 臭男人 are forever guilty. Women are always given the benefit of the doubt.
 

sleaguepunter

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I not interested with the wife/mother issues. I only interested on how and why this family financial problem fell through all the safety nets. In the end need public to give direct donations. What the fuck the govt welfare department are doing. Why only now the education fee are waived when can waive much earlier.
 
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