i need help genuinely too

[Alamaking]

..........If no intention to pay, this regard as "chao ka", also means you use the 5 digit loan to see through this friend's face (Though it's quite expensive),.....
Cheer up. 5 digit loan. Not everything.

prepare to write it off if you don't have a signed iou, agreement or contract. you can take her to court, but if there is no evidence of you lending money to her, you're out of luck. stalking and harassing her will not help.

Sibe expensive to see a friend face..... wah lau......

 

[1sickpuppy II]

I have a policy reguarding of lending $. To direct family members any sum also can as long as I can afford it, to friends range from $100 to $2000 max and to people I know at work $0 to $200. When I lend $ to people I don't really expect them to pay me back I take it as a cost of knowing how trustworthy that person is.

 

[krafty]

yes, there are this kind of pple who think of using money to see a person's character.

I have a policy reguarding of lending $. To direct family members any sum also can as long as I can afford it, to friends range from $100 to $2000 max and to people I know at work $0 to $200. When I lend $ to people I don't really expect them to pay me back I take it as a cost of knowing how trustworthy that person is.

 

[drifter]

good friends will never borrow money from you in the first place ..

 

[Cruxx]

[video=youtube;0AIlz08fZos]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AIlz08fZos&ob=av3e[/video]

 

[Forvendet]

Thanks, she very defensive, I had hard time finding a chance to talk to her, now bombarding with sms, lol

That's a bit childish and unproductive. You know she can don't reply and yet you still spam the SMSes. At most, she change her number and you're done and gone.

 

[Alamaking]

That's a bit childish and unproductive. You know she can don't reply and yet you still spam the SMSes. At most, she change her number and you're done and gone.

I know where her parent lives lah, no issue.....

 

[Fook Seng]

I know where her parent lives lah, no issue.....

Is she past 18 or 21, whichever the legal age? Beyond the legal age, her parents carry no responsibility for her. Act early if it is not already too late.

 

[LeMans2011]

good friends will never borrow money from you in the first place ..

That is very very true...

 

[LeMans2011]

Alamaking is soft like a woman

 

[Alamaking]

Alamaking is soft like a woman

I am kind, but always tio bully, lol

 

[Fook Seng]

Do you know where she live? Pay her a visit first thing in the morning, last thing at night and in the middle of the day. Cannot be not coming back or going out.

 

[Forvendet]

I know where her parent lives lah, no issue.....

The issue is whether you have the courage to go door knocking or not?

Do you know where she live? Pay her a visit first thing in the morning, last thing at night and in the middle of the day. Cannot be not coming back or going out.

 

[Cruxx]

人善被人欺，马善被人骑

妇人之仁

 

[krafty]

but because of this, are you are going to change into a monster??? be yourself and not get affected.

人善被人欺，马善被人骑

妇人之仁

 

[Cruxx]

Every single human action, thought and behaviour is motivated by self-interest

 

[HedgeTrader]

人善被人欺，马善被人骑

妇人之仁

他是阿拉马王，半夫半妇之人。

:p

 

[Alamaking]

Hey guys, I was thinking of doing a red letter with her name and unit no., with how much owed and put into her postbox and said "next time, the 2nd letter similiar like the 1st one will be send to every of her neighbor unit. Is this illegal?

 

[Unrepented]

Lend money to friends when you are prepared to lose that friendship. Because, even if you don't really expect them to pay you back, they will still avoid you out of embrassment...... and there goes that friendship....worse if it is old friends.....all the years lost.

I have a policy reguarding of lending $. To direct family members any sum also can as long as I can afford it, to friends range from $100 to $2000 max and to people I know at work $0 to $200. When I lend $ to people I don't really expect them to pay me back I take it as a cost of knowing how trustworthy that person is.

 

[Unrepented]

I think that amounts to harassment. Remember the lady paste post of her husand and mistress all over case.

Go to her workplace and pay her a visit lah. Avoid worrying her parents.:o

Hey guys, I was thinking of doing a red letter with her name and unit no., with how much owed and put into her postbox and said "next time, the 2nd letter similiar like the 1st one will be send to every of her neighbor unit. Is this illegal?