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How to stop your suffering?

char_jig_kar

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Here's the answer:

http://www.thebigview.com/buddhism/eightfoldpath.html

The Noble Eightfold Path describes the way to the end of suffering, as it was laid out by Siddhartha Gautama. It is a practical guideline to ethical and mental development with the goal of freeing the individual from attachments and delusions; and it finally leads to understanding the truth about all things. Together with the Four Noble Truths it constitutes the gist of Buddhism. Great emphasis is put on the practical aspect, because it is only through practice that one can attain a higher level of existence and finally reach Nirvana. The eight aspects of the path are not to be understood as a sequence of single steps, instead they are highly interdependent principles that have to be seen in relationship with each other.

1. Right View

Right view is the beginning and the end of the path, it simply means to see and to understand things as they really are and to realise the Four Noble Truth. As such, right view is the cognitive aspect of wisdom. It means to see things through, to grasp the impermanent and imperfect nature of worldly objects and ideas, and to understand the law of karma and karmic conditioning. Right view is not necessarily an intellectual capacity, just as wisdom is not just a matter of intelligence. Instead, right view is attained, sustained, and enhanced through all capacities of mind. It begins with the intuitive insight that all beings are subject to suffering and it ends with complete understanding of the true nature of all things. Since our view of the world forms our thoughts and our actions, right view yields right thoughts and right actions.

2. Right Intention

While right view refers to the cognitive aspect of wisdom, right intention refers to the volitional aspect, i.e. the kind of mental energy that controls our actions. Right intention can be described best as commitment to ethical and mental self-improvement. Buddha distinguishes three types of right intentions: 1. the intention of renunciation, which means resistance to the pull of desire, 2. the intention of good will, meaning resistance to feelings of anger and aversion, and 3. the intention of harmlessness, meaning not to think or act cruelly, violently, or aggressively, and to develop compassion.

3. Right Speech

Right speech is the first principle of ethical conduct in the eightfold path. Ethical conduct is viewed as a guideline to moral discipline, which supports the other principles of the path. This aspect is not self-sufficient, however, essential, because mental purification can only be achieved through the cultivation of ethical conduct. The importance of speech in the context of Buddhist ethics is obvious: words can break or save lives, make enemies or friends, start war or create peace. Buddha explained right speech as follows: 1. to abstain from false speech, especially not to tell deliberate lies and not to speak deceitfully, 2. to abstain from slanderous speech and not to use words maliciously against others, 3. to abstain from harsh words that offend or hurt others, and 4. to abstain from idle chatter that lacks purpose or depth. Positively phrased, this means to tell the truth, to speak friendly, warm, and gently and to talk only when necessary.

4. Right Action

The second ethical principle, right action, involves the body as natural means of expression, as it refers to deeds that involve bodily actions. Unwholesome actions lead to unsound states of mind, while wholesome actions lead to sound states of mind. Again, the principle is explained in terms of abstinence: right action means 1. to abstain from harming sentient beings, especially to abstain from taking life (including suicide) and doing harm intentionally or delinquently, 2. to abstain from taking what is not given, which includes stealing, robbery, fraud, deceitfulness, and dishonesty, and 3. to abstain from sexual misconduct. Positively formulated, right action means to act kindly and compassionately, to be honest, to respect the belongings of others, and to keep sexual relationships harmless to others. Further details regarding the concrete meaning of right action can be found in the Precepts.

5. Right Livelihood

Right livelihood means that one should earn one's living in a righteous way and that wealth should be gained legally and peacefully. The Buddha mentions four specific activities that harm other beings and that one should avoid for this reason: 1. dealing in weapons, 2. dealing in living beings (including raising animals for slaughter as well as slave trade and prostitution), 3. working in meat production and butchery, and 4. selling intoxicants and poisons, such as alcohol and drugs. Furthermore any other occupation that would violate the principles of right speech and right action should be avoided.

6. Right Effort

Right effort can be seen as a prerequisite for the other principles of the path. Without effort, which is in itself an act of will, nothing can be achieved, whereas misguided effort distracts the mind from its task, and confusion will be the consequence. Mental energy is the force behind right effort; it can occur in either wholesome or unwholesome states. The same type of energy that fuels desire, envy, aggression, and violence can on the other side fuel self-discipline, honesty, benevolence, and kindness. Right effort is detailed in four types of endeavours that rank in ascending order of perfection: 1. to prevent the arising of unarisen unwholesome states, 2. to abandon unwholesome states that have already arisen, 3. to arouse wholesome states that have not yet arisen, and 4. to maintain and perfect wholesome states already arisen.

7. Right Mindfulness

Right mindfulness is the controlled and perfected faculty of cognition. It is the mental ability to see things as they are, with clear consciousness. Usually, the cognitive process begins with an impression induced by perception, or by a thought, but then it does not stay with the mere impression. Instead, we almost always conceptualise sense impressions and thoughts immediately. We interpret them and set them in relation to other thoughts and experiences, which naturally go beyond the facticity of the original impression. The mind then posits concepts, joins concepts into constructs, and weaves those constructs into complex interpretative schemes. All this happens only half consciously, and as a result we often see things obscured. Right mindfulness is anchored in clear perception and it penetrates impressions without getting carried away. Right mindfulness enables us to be aware of the process of conceptualisation in a way that we actively observe and control the way our thoughts go. Buddha accounted for this as the four foundations of mindfulness: 1. contemplation of the body, 2. contemplation of feeling (repulsive, attractive, or neutral), 3. contemplation of the state of mind, and 4. contemplation of the phenomena.

8. Right Concentration

The eighth principle of the path, right concentration, refers to the development of a mental force that occurs in natural consciousness, although at a relatively low level of intensity, namely concentration. Concentration in this context is described as one-pointedness of mind, meaning a state where all mental faculties are unified and directed onto one particular object. Right concentration for the purpose of the eightfold path means wholesome concentration, i.e. concentration on wholesome thoughts and actions. The Buddhist method of choice to develop right concentration is through the practice of meditation. The meditating mind focuses on a selected object. It first directs itself onto it, then sustains concentration, and finally intensifies concentration step by step. Through this practice it becomes natural to apply elevated levels concentration also in everyday situations.

http://www.thebigview.com/buddhism/eightfoldpath.html
 

char_jig_kar

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So are languages, e.g. English and Spanish.

Yes, but for a society of 75 percent Chinese, 97 percent Asian, to treat Chinese language as dirt, thats uncalled for, and unjustifiable. Its a sell out. And it show the moral standard of this society. A society that do a sell out on their own Asian culture and language.
 

char_jig_kar

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You could go jab at me every now and then, but u cant win in this. A sell out is a sell out. No excuse for it. No excuse for Singapore society to do a sell out on Asian language and culture.
 

char_jig_kar

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Cant justify this, sellout on one's asian language and culture, in a country populated by Asian: 97% asian, 75% chinese. No way we could justify this sellout.
 

Ramseth

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I'm not trying to justify anything (or "jabbing"). I'm just making an observation. Languages like English and Spanish have somehow attained international characteristics of their own. There're so many more overseas English speakers of non-English ethnic descent than in England. There're so many more overseas Spanish speakers of non-Spanish ethnic descent than in Spain.

Letting go of historical baggages, whether mental or psychological, the one you hang on yourself, and the ones you're trying to hang on others, may be one of the ways to alleviate the suffering that your're struggling with in your mind.

It's not a betrayal of ancestral culture. Times have changed, people have changed and even places have changed.
 

char_jig_kar

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I'm not trying to justify anything (or "jabbing"). I'm just making an observation. Languages like English and Spanish have somehow attained international characteristics of their own. There're so many more overseas English speakers of non-English ethnic descent than in England. There're so many more overseas Spanish speakers of non-Spanish ethnic descent than in Spain.

Letting go of historical baggages, whether mental or psychological, the one you hang on yourself, and the ones you're trying to hang on others, may be one of the ways to alleviate the suffering that your're struggling with in your mind.

It's not a betrayal of ancestral culture. Times have changed, people have changed and even places have changed.

It comes down to this. Is Chinese culture worth upholding? If the answer is no, then fuck it, throw away chinese language. If the answer is yes, then why ditch chinese language??

Bear in mind that language is the key to culture.
 
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Ramseth

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It comes down to this. Is Chinese culture worth upholding? If the answer is no, then fuck it, throw away chinese language. If the answer is yes, then why ditch chinese language??

Bare in mind that language is the key to culture.


To me, it's worth keeping. I love all the histories and calligraphies, classics and poems. But to others, to each his/her own.
 

char_jig_kar

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To me, it's worth keeping. I love all the histories and calligraphies, classics and poems. But to others, to each his/her own.

how to ' to each his/her own' when the education policies, and language policies in this country is bias against chinese language??
 
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