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how faithful can we be ?

Discussion in 'The Courtyard Café' started by tamelover, Jul 16, 2008.

  1. tamelover

    tamelover Alfrescian Old Timer

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    i'm not married yet, got a gf for about 2 years, she good looking, well educated, in fact, she's a grad whereas i'm not.

    she's good to me, considerate, loving, etc, my mom has already considered her as my "wife".

    the question is, i still like to cheong once a while, for which after each session, i felt guilty .......

    has any other bros faced the same ?
     
  2. yinyang

    yinyang Alfrescian (Inf)

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    If you didn't feel guilty after each session, that's probably worse. Then you have no qualms messing about:p
     
  3. slyer

    slyer Alfrescian Old Timer

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    i understand ur situation bro. when i first started chionging i will feel guilty after every session regardless i have gf or no gf. but if have gf the guilt will be doubled esp if my gf is so nice to me.
     
  4. Mean Boy

    Mean Boy Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Me got a foreign GF... I admit I'm not faithful type, cause I frequent GL, visit WL/FL.:p
    Don't think I will ever be faithful even if I'm married :eek:
    But I will definitely give my 100% LOVE to my GF, or future Wifeley;)
     
  5. WOOHOO

    WOOHOO Alfrescian Old Timer

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    wahahahahahha really ya??^^ But what you say its also true la
    spending quality and real love time with our OCs is a must that's if if you really love them la ya:D
     
  6. Msdy777

    Msdy777 Alfrescian Old Timer

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    It's a man natural to cheong....if you feel guilty...don't cheong lo.. very simple as that :p
     
  7. SammyHulk

    SammyHulk Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Well imo, i guess it's alright since you only cheong once in a while. It's normal to feel that way since you mentioned your gf is good and being considerate to you.;)
     
  8. Mean Boy

    Mean Boy Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Yo Big Bro,
    Those who knows me, knows me lah..:D You know what I mean right ? :D
    Btw, how about you Big Bro ??;) ^^

    Cheers Happi Happi
     
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  9. gimidy17

    gimidy17 Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Bro that's show that you have conscience in your heart, feeling guilty in your heart tells you that you are doing something not right. So either you go ahead and do it the guilty feeling will subside or stop cheonging to be a good bf and treat her better.

    For your info, I have chose to stop cheonging and return home earily. Treasure her before she is gone. Most woman will be mad when they find out. I don't want to rush that. How about you?
     
  10. 1sickpuppy

    1sickpuppy Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Think of your GF/wife as a personal hanky. You keep it for your personal use and maintain it whereas those gals u have 1 nite stands are like tissue paper use and throw. At the end of the day you keep your hanky close to you and bring it home whereas the tissue paper you use already forget where you toss it to.
     
  11. loafer73

    loafer73 Alfrescian Old Timer

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    agree :D
    like bro Msdy777 mentioned, if feel guilty than best not do it. else live life to the fullest! :p
     
  12. Dunga

    Dunga Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Ya. If you feel guilty, then dun do it lor. :eek:
     
  13. Mean Boy

    Mean Boy Alfrescian Old Timer

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    Bro loafer73,
    Thanks thanks thanks:D
    My heart belongs only to my sweet love, and my 100% love already deposited Deep In Her Heart ( that's where I live;) )... Saw my Location above right handside & Signature below? :rolleyes:
    For me cheong is a must, but end of the day, I will still be with my girl and its a MUST MUST MUST :D

    PS:- Me guilty? NO....But Am I faithful? :p

    Cheers Happi Happi
     
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  14. Msdy777

    Msdy777 Alfrescian Old Timer

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    sometimes... husband and wife lives will be boring...
    Think of this way, cheong and feel guilty so u will treasure ur wife more..and make ur relationship lasts longer ;p
     
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    the more u cheong, the less guilt you will feel. so no worries.
     
  16. Big Sexy

    Big Sexy Super Moderator

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    dont worry .. 99% of the guys here face the same problem. Go for it.. :D :D
     
  17. jbsmith

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    将心比心。;)

    Learn to be faithful.
     

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