[Help] Abusive Dad

[BuiKia]

Help

Don't know what is wrong with my dad. After 27 years, he took over my sister's bedroom. Now she have to sleep in my room.

The household is totally under his control, except my room which I recently got from his brother, who then after that, left the household.

Now he did not want to govern the house properly; keep giving our money to his wife to gamble and lost at MBS. He force us to give 20% of our salary to him each month.:(


And he always let other people we don't know share the living room and the food. We pay and work for the food, but the strangers don't pay a cent or help out with the household chores.


Now he got greedy and want my room too. But instead of listening to us to remove the strangers and I will give up my room, he started to throw punches at me whenever he can.

If he is genunine and sincere to listen to us and govern the house for the benefit OF HIS OWN FAMILY, I will gladly give the room to him. But now.. so many strangers taking up space in our house and eat/stay/shower for free. No need even help out with the household chores. And he wants to take my room BY FORCE, even to tell his friends who come over to throw punches at me, and training them to do that

Is my dad being a tyrant?:(

http://forums.fuckwarezone.com.sg/showthread.php?t=3503303

 

[middaydog]

down and out GoldenDragon?:(

 

[saratogas]

He must be suffering from Depression! Very common and good excuse, medical condition...

 

[sirus]

Maybe going through Andropause?

http://www.grandtimes.com/Male_Menopause.html

How can we cope with the changes associated with the andropause?

The andropause brings about physical and psychological changes. As the older male ages and undergoes the andropause, he has to grapple with profound changes and issues. These changes bring about stress, and if stress is not managed well, it can be very disabling and even lead to depression. In my book, “The Andropause Mystery”, I described Six Simple Strategies to combat Stress in the Andropause. I believe that these 6 simple strategies can help you manage this aging process graciously. The 6 strategies for a successful andropause is summarized below:

1. Learn to love and reward yourself and others. Much satisfaction can be obtained from not only receiving but also giving. We cannot bring our earthly wealth to the afterworld, and we should learn to reward not only ourselves but also those around us. There comes a point in life where leaving legacies behind become important.

2. Take control and organize yourself. Discipline is important even in the later part of life. In particular, learn not to abuse alcohol and quit smoking. Time management is crucial as well. It is important for instance, to prepare our wills, estate management and advance directives and that is part of organizing ourselves.

3. Exercise yourself. A combination of cardiovascular and muscle conditioning will help delay aging processes.

4. Relax and Rest yourself. The body is changing with aging and there are physiological changes occurring and that he and you should be mindful of that.

5. Feed yourselves- not quantitatively but qualitatively! It is important to eat the right kinds of food to adjust for physiological aging changes.

6. Enjoy Aging and the Andropause. Some things are inevitable, no matter what we do! It is important to be satisfied. Most of us will have to pass through this journey so let us make the best of it. May we make this journey of profound change one also of positive evolvement, and a time of rich blessings for ourselves as well as those around us, as we age graciously through the andropause!

 

[Alamaking]

You sure the strangers eat and bath for free?