'He doesn't pay when we're out on a date!' — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: 'What's one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?'

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'He doesn't pay when we're out on a date!' — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: 'What's one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?' - Singapore News

theindependent.sg

SINGAPORE: If you’re a Singaporean guy trying to survive the dating jungle, brace yourself because the SG ladies have spoken, and the TikTok verdict is brutal.

In a wildly relatable (or controversial, depending on which side of TikTok you’re on) street interview video by @unfilteredpresents, the question posed to a line-up of women enjoying their nightlife was simple: “What’s one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?”

Let’s just say… the answers came fast, fierce, and without filters — much like a girls’ group chat after a disastrous first date.

“If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”​

The video, clocking close to 30K views and 1000 likes, didn’t hold back. Each woman gave her brutally honest (and sometimes hilariously savage) take on what sends a man straight into the “ick” and “eeew” zone.

• “Oh, usually when they open their mouth!” quipped one woman, drawing immediate laughter.
• “If the ego is damn big!” another woman added, while several other women in the nightlife scene said all the following:
• “Narcissism!”
• “If he doesn’t respect me!”
• “Possessiveness!”
• “Rudeness!”
• “When they’re too touchy!”
• “If they don’t reply!”
• “A pick me man!”
• “When he has no ambition!”

And of course, the line that’s caused a mini earthquake was: “If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”

Another woman drove the point home with a gesture straight out of a K-drama breakup scene: Crossing her arms in an “X” and declaring, “The lack of communication!” with a disgusted facial expression that said, “bye!”

“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”​

And it didn’t just stop at personality red flags either. One woman casually dropped:
“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”

Translation: Fellas, your fade better be fresh.

However, it’s not just about effort in grooming. It’s the emotional effort, too, as another woman exclaimed: “If he doesn’t put in the same level of effort as I do, like in conversations and stuff.”

SG men fire back! —> “These women are just plain full of themselves…”​

Naturally, Singaporean men weighed in with chef’s kiss levels of sarcasm and existential dread:

“With all due respect, based on this video’s sample data, the reasonableness of the women seems to scale inversely with their size,” one commented.

“Some are valid points… but some not… these women either can’t see what’s entitled behaviour or they’re just plain full of themselves,” added another.

“Who wants their attention anyway?” asked one, while a fellow SG bro expressed his fear instead: “I am scared to go there. It’s like one touch away from incarceration, even if it’s accidental.”

Looks like the Singapore dating scene’s no longer just dinner and drinks — it’s now a psychological and emotional war zone!

Dating’s hard! Expectations are high!​

While not every comment from the women was sunshine and rainbows, one thoughtful woman wrapped it up with something refreshingly mature that maybe men could consider thinking about:

“When they’re afraid of something and they’re not honest about it. Because it’s like — if you’re afraid of something, I might as well know. Then we can guide each other through those things.”

And that, dear men… and women, is just the emotional intelligence reminder we all need from time to time.

 

[syed putra]

Grooming? The male gazans despite being bombed, took effort to look smart.

 

[congo9]

Where is the independent modern woman who can match their mate in every aspect and beat them ?

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Give and take la. Sometimes the guy pays for the movie tickets, then the gal will settle the popcorn and drinks.

 

[WangChuk]

how come their answers same as expectations of whores and PROs ??

 

[NanoSpeed]

'He doesn't pay when we're out on a date!' — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: 'What's one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?' - Singapore News

theindependent.sg

SINGAPORE: If you’re a Singaporean guy trying to survive the dating jungle, brace yourself because the SG ladies have spoken, and the TikTok verdict is brutal.

In a wildly relatable (or controversial, depending on which side of TikTok you’re on) street interview video by @unfilteredpresents, the question posed to a line-up of women enjoying their nightlife was simple: “What’s one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?”

Let’s just say… the answers came fast, fierce, and without filters — much like a girls’ group chat after a disastrous first date.

“If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”​

The video, clocking close to 30K views and 1000 likes, didn’t hold back. Each woman gave her brutally honest (and sometimes hilariously savage) take on what sends a man straight into the “ick” and “eeew” zone.

• “Oh, usually when they open their mouth!” quipped one woman, drawing immediate laughter.
• “If the ego is damn big!” another woman added, while several other women in the nightlife scene said all the following:
• “Narcissism!”
• “If he doesn’t respect me!”
• “Possessiveness!”
• “Rudeness!”
• “When they’re too touchy!”
• “If they don’t reply!”
• “A pick me man!”
• “When he has no ambition!”

And of course, the line that’s caused a mini earthquake was: “If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”

Another woman drove the point home with a gesture straight out of a K-drama breakup scene: Crossing her arms in an “X” and declaring, “The lack of communication!” with a disgusted facial expression that said, “bye!”

“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”​

And it didn’t just stop at personality red flags either. One woman casually dropped:
“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”

Translation: Fellas, your fade better be fresh.

However, it’s not just about effort in grooming. It’s the emotional effort, too, as another woman exclaimed: “If he doesn’t put in the same level of effort as I do, like in conversations and stuff.”

SG men fire back! —> “These women are just plain full of themselves…”​

Naturally, Singaporean men weighed in with chef’s kiss levels of sarcasm and existential dread:

“With all due respect, based on this video’s sample data, the reasonableness of the women seems to scale inversely with their size,” one commented.

“Some are valid points… but some not… these women either can’t see what’s entitled behaviour or they’re just plain full of themselves,” added another.

“Who wants their attention anyway?” asked one, while a fellow SG bro expressed his fear instead: “I am scared to go there. It’s like one touch away from incarceration, even if it’s accidental.”

Looks like the Singapore dating scene’s no longer just dinner and drinks — it’s now a psychological and emotional war zone!

Dating’s hard! Expectations are high!​

While not every comment from the women was sunshine and rainbows, one thoughtful woman wrapped it up with something refreshingly mature that maybe men could consider thinking about:

“When they’re afraid of something and they’re not honest about it. Because it’s like — if you’re afraid of something, I might as well know. Then we can guide each other through those things.”

And that, dear men… and women, is just the emotional intelligence reminder we all need from time to time.

If you are serious about pursuing a woman, you should compile the comments of these women. They are telling the truth, but still you need a codec to decompress the file. If you apply the right codec, they are looking for a handsome man whom they can show off to their friends, not so intelligent so that they can pull a wool over his eyes anytime, docile so that they can program him and deep pockets so they can make him pay.

If you allow a woman to measure your worth, you can never run away from this trap. Once entrapped, they are like PAP. They make you pay their big salaries and ridicule you in front of CECAs. They say you need to upskill despite your NUS, NTU, NP and SP credentials, humiliate you and offer you SkillsFuture credits whilst Uptron ACL graduates strut their balls and dance on the red carpet of MoM. You believe them and continue to look up to them for validation. They give you a Green Beret and you continue to align yourself with them, roaming the streets in a PHV whilst CECAs romance your wife behind your back.

You need to get out of this women matrix.​

 

[bigozt]

Sinkie man get more bang for SGD with regional bitches or even in Geylang. The level of self entitlement of Sinkie bitches is incredible.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Women free or women lite lifestyle is best
Women got nothing to offer except their pussies

 

[glockman]

'He doesn't pay when we're out on a date!' — SG women give their brutally honest answers to: 'What's one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?' - Singapore News

theindependent.sg

SINGAPORE: If you’re a Singaporean guy trying to survive the dating jungle, brace yourself because the SG ladies have spoken, and the TikTok verdict is brutal.

In a wildly relatable (or controversial, depending on which side of TikTok you’re on) street interview video by @unfilteredpresents, the question posed to a line-up of women enjoying their nightlife was simple: “What’s one thing that makes you lose interest in a man?”

Let’s just say… the answers came fast, fierce, and without filters — much like a girls’ group chat after a disastrous first date.

“If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”​

The video, clocking close to 30K views and 1000 likes, didn’t hold back. Each woman gave her brutally honest (and sometimes hilariously savage) take on what sends a man straight into the “ick” and “eeew” zone.

• “Oh, usually when they open their mouth!” quipped one woman, drawing immediate laughter.
• “If the ego is damn big!” another woman added, while several other women in the nightlife scene said all the following:
• “Narcissism!”
• “If he doesn’t respect me!”
• “Possessiveness!”
• “Rudeness!”
• “When they’re too touchy!”
• “If they don’t reply!”
• “A pick me man!”
• “When he has no ambition!”

And of course, the line that’s caused a mini earthquake was: “If you don’t offer to pay on a date!”

Another woman drove the point home with a gesture straight out of a K-drama breakup scene: Crossing her arms in an “X” and declaring, “The lack of communication!” with a disgusted facial expression that said, “bye!”

“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”​

And it didn’t just stop at personality red flags either. One woman casually dropped:
“Hair! The hair makes everything stand out!”

Translation: Fellas, your fade better be fresh.

However, it’s not just about effort in grooming. It’s the emotional effort, too, as another woman exclaimed: “If he doesn’t put in the same level of effort as I do, like in conversations and stuff.”

SG men fire back! —> “These women are just plain full of themselves…”​

Naturally, Singaporean men weighed in with chef’s kiss levels of sarcasm and existential dread:

“With all due respect, based on this video’s sample data, the reasonableness of the women seems to scale inversely with their size,” one commented.

“Some are valid points… but some not… these women either can’t see what’s entitled behaviour or they’re just plain full of themselves,” added another.

“Who wants their attention anyway?” asked one, while a fellow SG bro expressed his fear instead: “I am scared to go there. It’s like one touch away from incarceration, even if it’s accidental.”

Looks like the Singapore dating scene’s no longer just dinner and drinks — it’s now a psychological and emotional war zone!

Dating’s hard! Expectations are high!​

While not every comment from the women was sunshine and rainbows, one thoughtful woman wrapped it up with something refreshingly mature that maybe men could consider thinking about:

“When they’re afraid of something and they’re not honest about it. Because it’s like — if you’re afraid of something, I might as well know. Then we can guide each other through those things.”

And that, dear men… and women, is just the emotional intelligence reminder we all need from time to time.

How come none of them mentioned small dick?

 

[tobelightlight]

I go out chilled and relax for myself. Very cheap if you do it in JB. i pay for my own food and everything to relax and enjoy.

Compare to have a pussy that expect this and that and you have to perform to meet their expectation, which included paying for the things she eats and drink and play, in order to be deem a successful date.. Where got time!!!

 

[syed putra]

How come none of them mentioned small dick?

They never got the chance to see it.

 

[NanoSpeed]

How come none of them mentioned small dick?

You can breathe a sigh of relief

 

[glockman]

They never got the chance to see it.

That's why well endowed men should wear tight fitting pants. I did that in my younger days, and couldn't fend women off fast enough.

 

[sbfuncle]

Paying during a date is definitely a plus point.
But Paying for date alone still lose to paying for a potential date when you are altogether with a group of people.

When i was still having JL look, a ter (friend's friend) paid for the dining we had with several people. It was a leestoran, so I expect the bill size to be estimated $500+.This ter later asked me how much was my salary. At that time my pay was only $1.4k and his was $1.6k and he drove a company lorry, being a site foreman.
One of the chioest bu among those people was impressed with him and later became his gf, despite his face look like a ter.
As for me, another gal with a lower rating one then became my gf.
Tbh I was jealous at that time to lose to a ter.

KNN this ter really know how to impress girls.
Despite his low salary, he was ready to invest with a successful risk assessment, whereas when I saw the bill, my balls shrinked.
$500-600 was alot of money to me back then with that pathetic salary.

 

[PatriotMissile2025]

Interview chiobus then we talk lah.

 

[kulgai]

How come none of them mentioned small dick?

to be precise, do u mean 3" ? lol

 

[NanoSpeed]

Paying during a date is definitely a plus point.
But Paying for date alone still lose to paying for a potential date when you are altogether with a group of people.

When i was still having JL look, a ter (friend's friend) paid for the dining we had with several people. It was a leestoran, so I expect the bill size to be estimated $500+.This ter later asked me how much was my salary. At that time my pay was only $1.4k and his was $1.6k and he drove a company lorry, being a site foreman.
One of the chioest bu among those people was impressed with him and later became his gf, despite his face look like a ter.
As for me, another gal with a lower rating one then became my gf.
Tbh I was jealous at that time to lose to a ter.

KNN this ter really know how to impress girls.
Despite his low salary, he was ready to invest with a successful risk assessment, whereas when I saw the bill, my balls shrinked.
$500-600 was alot of money to me back then with that pathetic salary.

Perhaps it's not just money.

Did the ter speak better than you?

 

[sbfuncle]

Perhaps it's not just money.

Did the term speak better than you?

I was around 25 yo and ter 1 year older.
He looked like a 40+ yo uncle.
Maybe he has the so called full package of a mature person with belly + driving, although a lorry but still better than me, walking with leg after giving up on motosikal temporarily. Also he was the leader of the pack, placing the orlar, whereas I just kept mum.
With his dinner investment and presentation, he scored all the points besides look, compared to me.
He didn't speak better in terms of English, but more maturely. His dinner presentation showed his confidence and paying for it should be the last nail.
And they went steady about 2 weeks later after that dinner.
Same time I went steady with the consolation prize KNN

 

[batman1]

No money, No honey.

 

[NanoSpeed]

I was around 25 yo and ter 1 year older.
He looked like a 40+ yo uncle.
Maybe he has the so called full package of a mature person with belly + driving, although a lorry but still better than me, walking with leg after giving up on motosikal temporarily. Also he was the leader of the pack, placing the orlar, whereas I just kept mum.
With his dinner investment and presentation, he scored all the points besides look, compared to me.
He didn't speak better in terms of English, but more maturely. His dinner presentation showed his confidence and paying for it should be the last nail.
And they went steady about 2 weeks later after that dinner.
Same time I went steady with the consolation prize KNN

You were missing something, and it wasn't money. It's glamour!

Women are suckers for glamour. The ter stole the limelight from everyone. The dinner table became his stage, and when he volunteered to give a treat to everyone the spotlight was exclusively on him.​