Aunty
You are still not with the programme. So let me put it in point form.
1. 99.99% of people don't use the real names. It is not proper and rather rude to bring your personal problems into this forum. Sort it out with your family. Only 4 people in 13 years have used their real names as far as I can recall the first time they entered this forum. 2 of them were running for parliament and it made sense to put across their message. That should tell you something.
2. Nobody cares if you are a waitress, swimming instructor, a CEO or a chairman of the Board. Everyone contributes to society. We need all sorts. Don't worry too much about what others think.
3. Nearly everyone I know have given to charity in their own way. They don't make a song and dance of it.
4. Please don't use this forum to solicit support or draw attention, manipulate others, seek sympathy or whatever else you do for your case.
5. You were sued because you were using this forum to rattle your family. In essence blackmailing them.
6. That lawsuit cited this forum. Why drag us into your mess.
7. I know there are few fruitcakes (pun intended) that fall for your stories of giving away things to good causes. That's how manipulative you are.
8. Your mantra of lawsuit in numerous threads that are not related to you is very irritating.
9. I am sure people are sick of repeatedly hearing of your van, your bike and your constant near death situation. No home/bathroom thread was rather manipulative. This forum is not the SPCA or the local town council. There are people who can't make ends meet, kids to feed, elderly and disabled parents and those who have lost their jobs. Do you see them in this forum using their names seeking help.
10. Most people here are reliable and responsible. When the taxi driver was run down by the Ferrari, forummers here rallied in a big way to support the family. If it is genuine, people will step forward.
Please fuck off if you still do not understand online forum etiquette. Better known as manners.