Graduation: No gown, scroll or photo op

Maximilian Chua-Heng

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Graduation: No gown, scroll or photo op




I ATTENDED the full-dress rehearsal of my six-year-old son's graduation ceremony at a grassroots kindergarten, PCF Pioneer Kindergarten, last Sunday.

I expected to see him and his fellow graduands go through the full, happy process - putting on graduation gowns and going on stage to collect their scrolls as the photographer took pictures.

Instead, the ceremony was reduced to a superficial shadow of what such milestones should be.

A pupil went on stage to receive the scrolls on behalf of each class. The focus appeared to be on the accompanying concert.

Shocked, I questioned the principal, who replied that the truncated ceremony had been the kindergarten's practice.

I was also given to understand that it was too time-consuming to have each pupil go on stage as the ceremony involved hundreds of graduating preschoolers.

Shouldn't the organisers focus on the primary purpose of the graduation ceremony, which is to acknowledge and celebrate the completion of a child's preschool education - marking that first milestone in their journey of lifelong learning?

Is the success of a dance item or two more important than recognising a child's first rite of passage?

Does the PCF headquarters issue guidelines to its kindergartens to ensure that such acknowledgements remain the primary focus of the ceremony?

My son's kindergarten ceremony is tomorrow. Except for the class representative, he and his fellow classmates face the unhappy prospect of not wearing the graduation gowns, not hearing their names called, not going on stage to receive their scrolls and not having their pictures taken.

The kindergarten may argue that it had fulfilled these separately earlier, but such canned arrangements of convenience defeat the purpose and spirit of a graduation ceremony.

The kindergarten's omission will be felt painfully by parents, unless the organisers do the proper thing: change its attitude and the ceremony, quickly.

Yap Wai Ling (Mrs)


http://www.straitstimes.com/STForum/Story/STIStory_601826.html
 
ah ling obviously unhappy bcos his son not chosen 2 b crass rep ...

oi! ... u r not n elite la ... :rolleyes:
 
Graduating from a kindergarden is now a milestone in learning??? lol
 
Typical SG kiasu parent! What Graduation Ceremony at 6 years old? Maybe she fear that this is the only level her son can achieve.
 
don't play play, almost every 369 is a graduate.. :D

No, this is why blood will be shed when there is no kindergarten graduation ceremony. The little kiddies are so traumatised that they will grow up to join gangs to compensate for their childhood insecurities. We need to quickly petition Minister Vivian to put in a ban on removing such graduation ceremonies.
 
Graduating from a kindergarden is now a milestone in learning??? lol

I was thinking about that, wow!...then my kindergarten education way back when, few attended kindergarten, must be recorded as an event History. It goes to reflect how stupid SINgaporeans had become!.

I thought they would have got out of that stupidity of the gown, mortar board & the scroll...this person I bet is an entrenched MEMBER of the 66.6% who voted for the People's Affordable Party and LOVING IT!.

:rolleyes:
 
don't play play, almost every 369 is a graduate.. :D

They even have proud photographs to show you! a KINDERGARTEN GRADUATE...better still a PCF KINDERGARTEN GRADUATE & this is what you get the product of the PCF education system... ha ha ha ha ha:D

OK OK lah!...the parents were complacent ( the blame goes back to you), you allowed you kids to speak brken eggish & half past six Mandarin & become an "a beng " & "ah lian" product..

:rolleyes:
 
Er... I did not have a graduation ceremony when I finished my Kindergarden in 1974, just last day, bye bye and a different school the next day.

Is the graduation ceremony for K2 so significant?
 
Er... I did not have a graduation ceremony when I finished my Kindergarden in 1974, just last day, bye bye and a different school the next day.

Is the graduation ceremony for K2 so significant?

For the 66.6% it is very important, PCF Kindergarten...the elite of all elite kindergarten...must have gown, ceremony, better still given out by the minister themselves...very important, when grow up can show to prospective emplyers & even boast to clients...:D
 
ooii, send your next son to YMCA kindergarten la, they call the name one by one up the stage, MP give out the cert summore

after that also got picture taken
 
So does that mean that Mrs Yap is willing to pay for rental of gown? Buy tickets for their graduation dinner and dance? :rolleyes: For crying out loud! These are only pre-school.
 
The only unhappy person at the ceremony tomorrow will be Mrs Yap. :(

I wish her son all the best in his future academic endeavours. :)


My son's kindergarten ceremony is tomorrow. Except for the class representative, he and his fellow classmates face the unhappy prospect of not wearing the graduation gowns, not hearing their names called, not going on stage to receive their scrolls and not having their pictures taken.
 
For the 66.6% it is very important, PCF Kindergarten...the elite of all elite kindergarten...must have gown, ceremony, better still given out by the minister themselves...very important, when grow up can show to prospective emplyers & even boast to clients...:D

Actually my daughter is graduating K2 this year and she is going to wear a gown, get a scroll and do a dance performance, and she is not from PCF even. The funny part is that most of the parents are more focus on the performance part. We all take out our camcorder and tape the part where they were doing their dances.There is more to show on how the kids perform than getting a scroll.....
 
I think the issue is if one is holding a graduation event, then the focus should be on the graduates and not the concert. It does not matter if they are preschoolers or 6 year olds. Imagine having a full dress rehersal and then having a class rep collecting the cert for all his classmates. Might as well email the cert and let them print at home using one of many cheap printers.

I have gone for events and where the wrong person or item became the centre of focus. One clown for his wedding brought in a painist to perform and the guy stole the limelight and kept entertaining requests until it became a farce.
 
I think the issue is if one is holding a graduation event, then the focus should be on the graduates and not the concert. It does not matter if they are preschoolers or 6 year olds. Imagine having a full dress rehersal and then having a class rep collecting the cert for all his classmates. Might as well email the cert and let them print at home using one of many cheap printers.

I have gone for events and where the wrong person or item became the centre of focus. One clown for his wedding brought in a painist to perform and the guy stole the limelight and kept entertaining requests until it became a farce.

You are right that if it is a graduation, then the focus is on the graduates.
 
Up to the late 1990s, the Chinese tabloids almost always published pictures of personal tragedies like deaths, accidental fatalities...crime victims all in their graduation gown,square hat , scroll in hand.

Choy diu le lo mei dai gut le si !


Actually my daughter is graduating K2 this year and she is going to wear a gown, get a scroll and do a dance performance, and she is not from PCF even. The funny part is that most of the parents are more focus on the performance part. We all take out our camcorder and tape the part where they were doing their dances.There is more to show on how the kids perform than getting a scroll.....
 
the results of Kindergarden education will obviously reflect well in her son's resume in 20 years time. better dont pray pray
 
To bring this issue up in the Straits Times, I am sure the principal will turn red on the face. :D
 
If we have formal ceremonies with gowns, scrolls and photos for young kids who have spent 2 years learning the alphabet, drawing pictures, playing games and singing songs, they will grow up thinking that every little event in their lives need some sort of formal recognition. Most of them won't even realise the significance, it's merely a kiddie fashion show for the parents.

Just a simple ceremony in their uniforms where every kid goes up and receives his cert from the principal will suffice. Leave the gowns, scrolls and photos for tertiary education.
 
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