Fathers' Chatgroup Thread

[ginfreely]

What a slut!

So good to be criminal bully tell lies act innocent call people slut then act poor thing in fathers thread. Just tell whatever things I was insulted back to yourselves. You chose not to go war no go court means whatever pap ceca said is true. Pui!

 

[ginfreely]

So good to be criminal bully tell lies act innocent call people slut then act poor thing in fathers thread. Just tell whatever things I was insulted back to yourselves. You chose not to go war no go court means whatever pap ceca said is true. Pui!

And you act poor thing fathers and your descendants deserved everything in every way. Pui!

 

[glockman]

From my observation, kids today are soft and only wants to make easy money. I don't know if it's due to the Western culture influence or what, but many just don't believe in working hard for their money.

Not just easy money, they have an inflated sense of self-entitlement. Are selfish, conceited and lack the proper values. They expect to have the best without working to earn it. They expect to be pampered and treated like royalty, and are habitual freeloaders. They expect the world to bend backwards for them. Gosh, I really hate them.

 

[winners]

Not just easy money, they have an inflated sense of self-entitlement. Are selfish, conceited and lack the proper values. They expect to have the best without working to earn it. They expect to be pampered and treated like royalty, and are habitual freeloaders. They expect the world to bend backwards for them. Gosh, I really hate them.

Exactly. And those who can earn more are always very arrogant of their achievements. They also think very highly of themselves, all with the wrong attitudes.

 

[Chase]

I was taught to earn my keeps

I used to do that, diligently kept my savings in Hyflux bonds, then overnight I lost everything, and start all over now.

In a way, i realized that if money is not spent, it is not yours. Even my children know about my massive losses. As a confused father, if I say these hard truths to my kids, they may not even want to save.

 

[Chase]

 

[Bacccarat]

Anywhere, if you worked 9~5 in a honest job, you will not earn much.
You must be smart and cunning and gutsy to do some "not legal" &/or illegal jobs to afford more.
But, firstly, are you prepared for the six-stars
Changi Ritz-Carlton if caught?

 

[Bacccarat]

I used to do that, diligently kept my savings in Hyflux bonds, then overnight I lost everything, and start all over now.

In a way, i realized that if money is not spent, it is not yours. Even my children know about my massive losses. As a confused father, if I say these hard truths to my kids, they may not even want to save.

Thats why I never buy shares, bonds, etc.
It is a gambling investment, instrument beyond your control.

I play bacccarat whereby I made my own calculated decisions.
Sometimes I played opposite the majority and whether I win or lose, I am only responsible to my wallet.

 

[Chase]

Anywhere, if you worked 9~5 in a honest job, you will not earn much.
You must be smart and cunning and gutsy to do some "not legal" &/or illegal jobs to afford more.
But, firstly, are you prepared for the six-stars
Changi Ritz-Carlton if caught?

yes, I do tell my kids that the world is not fair. If you are not there, you will never be there.

If they work hard, they will only go so far. Like Army, you work hard you retire as a Colonel but to get a star, you must be in the inner-circle. In civil service, if you work hard, you retire as a DD but not D, it's ok even if you are a slacko. You just need to be able to go against your principles and keep secrets.

I also share with them examples of china and indian people cheating and going against the rules in the course of my work, eg. Indians set up companies in Singapore get China/Taiwan products and relabel them as made-in-singapore and enjoy low-tariffs when sending to India.

Of course, if you do bad things, must be smart, don't get caught.

 

[Bacccarat]

Then, your money management. People are spending more than they are earning.
Do you really need a credit card, a car, a gold Rolex, etc.
My pigeon hole is fully paid. I don't have liabilities. I don't need to get a bank loan to buy a condo.
WHats important is having a roof with water and electricity

 

[Bacccarat]

If you want to do anything illegal, you must not be greedy.
It should be hit and run and cover your tracks well.
No paper trail, no money trail, no witnesses. All very discreet and strictly handle by yourself.
You can only trust yourself.

 

[Bacccarat]

The Statue of Limitations is
_______ years?
I had already kept my
"extra earnings" since more than 40 years ago.
At that time, records are not computerised.
I had hit and run and
kept those dirty , filthy money in
"undisclosed account".

 

[Chase]

The Statue of Limitations is
_______ years?
I had already kept my
"extra earnings" since more than 40 years ago.
At that time, records are not computerised.
I had hit and run and
kept those dirty , filthy money in
"undisclosed account".

These days it's different. Banks need to flag suspicious money transfers. RMs and Internal Audit will not touch the big boys or VIPs, once a while they will flag commoners, to show that they got do checks.

 

[Bacccarat]

These days it's different. Banks need to flag suspicious money transfers. RMs and Internal Audit will not touch the big boys or VIPs, once a while they will flag commoners, to show that they got do checks.

During my era, things were easier.

 

[zhihau]

I used to do that, diligently kept my savings in Hyflux bonds, then overnight I lost everything, and start all over now.

花掉的錢，才是真正擁有過的錢。其他的都只是數字的大小而已。

 

[SBFNews]

花掉的錢，才是真正擁有過的錢。其他的都只是數字的大小而已。

Money can earn back. Health once damaged difficult to recover. Stay happy most important.

 

[MaximiLian]

Fatherhood iz ze most overrated thing since pap. i m having kids juz 2 showcase my virility

 

[Bacccarat]

Money can earn back. Health once damaged difficult to recover. Stay happy most important.

This is very true.
If you are very rich, but in very bad health, means you cannot enjoy life with your money.

 

[SBFNews]

 

[tobelightlight]

As a father, I see young people struggling. They may clock $6000 before 30-years old, but they still struggle to buy a roof or car.

Teach the young to get into the sg system to earn money, then clock out of the system to spend money.

Earn in sg, then stay in jb. Perfect.