now i kind of suspect it is the women who make men become manginas.
		
		
	 
To be more precise, it is the 
mothers, especially 
East Asian (or at least/especially 
Chinese) mothers:
wikipedia.org/wiki/Tiger_mother
("
Tiger mother (traditional Chinese: 虎媽; simplified Chinese: 虎妈; pinyin: hǔmā; Wade–Giles: hu³ma¹) is a term which refers to a strict or demanding mother who pushes her children to be successful academically by attaining high levels of scholastic and academic achievement, using methods regarded as typical of childrearing in East Asia, South Asia and Southeast Asia to the detriment of the child's social, physical, psychological and emotional well-being.")
Men do 
not suddenly become "manginas" 
the moment they start adulthood.
If they are "manginas" at the start of their adult lives (especially until they reach middle age, or even old age, before they 
realize the 
hard truth that they are "manginas"), it is most probably (and I'm tempted to say "100% simply") because they were brought up by 
feminist mothers (and usually 
"mangina" fathers at the same time). :(
From even before they start puberty, they 
grow up in an environment where they are 
pressured (especially by their "mangina" fathers) to 
fear their feminist mothers and also their 
grandmothers (who are, more importantly, 
female adults); so by the time these boys become adults and start to interact with 
women outside their family, they (the "manginas") only know how to behave 
submissively towards women. :(
I was such a "mangina" before, but because of my interest in watching 
non-Sinkie movies since my teens, I 
gradually discovered other 
non-Sinkie non-"mangina" cultures outside Singapore and their 
non-"mangina" 
men and 
submissive women, especially 
Japanese women:
wikipedia.org/wiki/Yamato_nadeshiko
		
		
	
	
And eventually, by my late 20s (after a roughly ten-year process that started when I was in my late teens during NS), I dare say that not only am I 
no longer a "mangina", it's even quite 
difficult for me to 
become one again! 