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ATB, 31, who earns over S$10k/mth, seeks refund from matchmaking agency for not linking her up with guys with good incomes, looks & education levels

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Woman, 31, who earns over S$10,000 a month, seeks refund from S'pore matchmaking agency for not linking her up with guys with suitable incomes, looks & education levels​

The men that the agency introduced did not meet her request regarding education level and income.

Hannah Martens

May 06, 2025, 03:13 PM​

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A 31-year-old woman in Singapore used the services of a matchmaking agency to help her find a life partner as she felt she was ready to get married.

When she realised the agency could not meet her expectations, she demanded a refund.

However, the agency did not process the refund and the woman filed a complaint with the Consumers Association of Singapore (CASE).

Speaking to Shin Min Daily News, Luo (transliteration), who hails from Hunan, China, has been living in Singapore for eight years.

She has been working since she graduated with a master's degree from a local university.

She told the Chinese media that her salary is over S$10,000 a month and hoped to find a partner with similar academic qualifications and a higher income than hers.

Luo met the matchmaker, Singapore Red Line Dating, at One Fullerton in April 2025, where the staff asked her to fill in her personal details.

Offered packages​

A director then introduced the matchmaking packages to her.

Luo said the cheapest package offered was S$6,999, which allowed her to meet three potential matches.

She was then shown numerous profiles of men who were all "good-looking" and had "annual incomes in the tens of millions".

The most expensive package was a lifetime plan that matches clients until they find someone they are satisfied with.

Luo told Shin Min that, being practical, she did not want to "aim too high", so she negotiated with the agency.

They settled on a S$600 fee, which allowed her to meet two men.

As she was in a rush, Luo said she transferred the cash on the spot before leaving.

Shin Min noted that the agency did not provide Luo a receipt, nor did they sign an agreement.

Men did not meet expectations​

Later, the agency created a WeChat group and introduced different men to Luo.

However, the men the agency introduced did not meet her request regarding education level and income.

"They only had diplomas and earned just tens of thousands a year, and their appearances were also not to my liking," Luo told the Chinese media.

When she asked the agency to introduce her to other people, they refused and insisted she meet the men they had introduced.

However, as the men did not meet her requirements, Luo did not meet them.

Not the only one​

Luo requested a refund from the agency, but was asked to meet men who did not meet her expectations, Shin Min reported.

"When someone from the matchmaking company called me to ask for the reason, their attitude was poor and even personally attacked me, saying they had plenty of women like me among their members," she said.

When she threatened to report the matter to the police, the staff member relented and agreed to process the refund.

However, when she did not receive a refund, she filed a complaint with CASE.

Wanted to warn others online​

Luo told Shin Min that she went online to warn others about her experience and discovered that others had similar experiences with the same matchmaking agency.

One man told her that he paid S$3,000 to the agency, but could not schedule a meeting with any of the women introduced to him.

Another woman also contacted Luo to share her experience with the agency.

The woman also spoke to Shin Min, sharing that the cheapest package they offered her was S$36,000, which was then reduced to S$7,500 for four matches.

However, once she signed the contract, the matchmaking agency apparently could not provide proof that the men introduced were single.

As such, she refused to meet them and requested a refund.

She also lodged a complaint with CASE.

Two complaints in 2025​

In response to Shin Min's queries, CASE confirmed that between Jan. 1 and Apr. 30 2025, it received two complaints against Singapore Red Line Dating Pte Ltd.

CASE president Melvin Yong said one complaint involved a consumer being pressured into purchasing a package, while the other involved the company's failure to provide a match based on the consumer's preferences.

He added that CASE is assisting the affected customers.

According to the agency's website, it stated that it is a professional matchmaking team from Hong Kong with over 10 years of experience that has helped over 4,000 singles find a match.

Top photo via Shin Min Daily News
 
Woman, 31, who earns over S$10,000 a month, seeks refund from S'pore matchmaking agency for not linking her up with guys with suitable incomes, looks & education levels
Men with such qualifications already linked up with women below age 25 and planning for marriage soon.
 
@NanoSpeed

Your mentor got use paid matchmaking services b4?
Gansiokbin went for sds.
She Verlee Kiam siap would not pay agencies.

Most of the candidates in sds got some problem one.
This is not the first case of cannot find hole.
I knew one blur fuck that married a partner from sds and endup they never have intercourse before becos the sds wife fear sex. End up they divorced but not so shameless as gansiokbin annulled.
 
How ugly or unpopular do u have to be to pay for this kind of service?
It is meant for people who are determined to find a life partner and mostly are introverts.
And they doesn't want to waste time with online dating platforms.

To make everything a seamless process, I have proposed a secret tunnel dating services.
But I'm not energetic enough to get this idea into practical business.

Younger samster can seriously give it a thought. It is a niche market not found anywhere in this world.
 
It is meant for people who are determined to find a life partner and mostly are introverts.
And they doesn't want to waste time with online dating platforms.

To make everything a seamless process, I have proposed a secret tunnel dating services.
But I'm not energetic enough to get this idea into practical business.

Younger samster can seriously give it a thought. It is a niche market not found anywhere in this world.
I actually got this idea from the Raymond wong 开心鬼 movie whereby he managed to let the trios see who is interested in who by having a Angel colour on top of their head.

From there, I thought why we need to guess who is keen with who and wasting time pursuing someone that dislike us, or we dislike them?

Every thing can be settled by a walkin tunnel.
And becos people generally are shy and having pride in letting people know they attend such dating event.
Hence it needs to be a secret tunnel.

You see what you like and be likened and walked out the tunnel as a happy couple.

Losers just walk out without anyone knowing.

When you approach girls outside they think you are pervert.
When you go clubbing and try to hookup girls, you can get ignored etc
You try to woo office colleagues, it affect work and not necessarily they will hue you.
You attend sds event to find all the book worms and worst some siao lang accountant.
Everyone are not having a common goal.

Except a secret tunnel service.
Short and sweet.


Isn't that best of the best?
 
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I actually got this idea from the Raymond wong 开心鬼 movie whereby he managed to let the trios see who is interested in who by having a Angel colour on top of their head.

From there, I thought why we need to guess who is keen with who and wasting time pursuing someone that dislike us, or we dislike them?

Every thing can be settled by a walkin tunnel.
And becos people generally are shy and having pride in letting people know they attend such dating event.
Hence it needs to be a secret tunnel.

You see what you like and be likened and walked out the tunnel as a happy couple.

Losers just walk out without anyone knowing.

When you approach girls outside they think you are pervert.
When you go clubbing and try to hookup girls, you can get ignored etc
You try to woo office colleagues, it affect work and not necessarily they will hue you.
You attend sds event to find all the book worms and worst some siao lang accountant.
Everyone are not having a common goal.

Except a secret tunnel service.
Short and sweet.


Isn't that best of the best?
Last time my that blur fuck friend attended one very stupid awkward sds event.

He told me the event gathered like 8 females and 8 males participant.
They were given like 5mins to swap partners to chat.
What will happen with this kind of arrangement is that the ter be it male or female will not even given1 min LOL
As my friend was a blur fuck with complete blur fuck appearance, he told me Noone wanted to chat with him and what made it even more awkward was that all the participants were sitting just metres away from each other LOL

This secret tunnel dating service can absolutely protect members from facing such awkward position.
 
Wondering if she herself has got the suitable look ... :o-o:
This is where the crux of the answer lies.
Generally I rarely see any atb at 31yo consider still young that is so ugly until need to go matching agency.
Furthermore with her kind of income, leelee suspicious.
 
I noticed that ATBs always literally emphasize the word 征婚 when seeking someone to date. That puts additional pressure in the modern era, people generally don't talk about marriage on the first meeting. :rolleyes:

Doesn't matter how much they earn, that delulu mentality from ancient China never changes. :biggrin:

Go to this temple and pray to 月老 lah, you need divine intervention. :cool:

 
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