Are these signs of a "loser"?

[sbfuncle]

My former classmate constantly blames external factors or other people for his problems instead of taking responsibility for his own actions. He often laments: "It is my boss's fault I got retrenched" or "My wife ruined my life by leaving me" rather than looking at what he is able to control. This friend persistently focuses on the negative aspects of life without any effort to change the situation. This is draining for both himself and those around him. Our other former classmates consider this guy a loser. What do you think?

I know one loser blamer.
When he always late for his shift, causing other workers in the previous shift having to wait for him, he blamed on all the transportation but never himself.

When i scolded him for being a ter nao, he put blamed on his mom.

 

[True Believer]

If you still mingle with your 'cohort' after graduation, or worse, NS, you are just not very smart. Make new friends. Especially the wealthy, powerful, attractive ones.

It is foolish to burn your bridges because the hand you bite today may be attached to the butt you need to kiss in a future job. Hahaha!

 

[eatshitndie]

go on honeymoon and can’t find lobang: big loser. finally after 6.9 hours finds lobang but can’t enter: bigger loser.

 

[True Believer]

go on honeymoon and can’t find lobang: big loser. finally after 6.9 hours finds lobang but can’t enter: bigger loser.

What could be worse than a man who spends $200 on a prostitute, does not want to spend money on Viagra and then fails to achieve an erection while trying to go down on the whore? He is a loser alright!

 

[sbfuncle]

Gansiokbin is a classic loser that applied workplace physical and verbal violence.