Chitchat AMA session with Syed Putra: what is the difference if your son married a chink and your daughter married a chink?

[Sinkiesuk]

@syed putra as above topic. Can elaborate more and why u celebrate more on getting chink girl?

 

[syed putra]

Chinese are for practice. Not Long term commitment i would tell them.

 

[Sinkiesuk]

Chinese are for practice. Not Long term commitment i would tell them.

Really meh? Many of your kind dying to chase chink girls and even try very hard to get them married and even u celebrate while the chink side family look more upset. As for the chink guy, u like chase them away. Why so much difference?

 

[syed putra]

Really meh? Many of your kind dying to chase chink girls and even try very hard to get them married and even u celebrate while the chink side family look more upset. As for the chink guy, u like chase them away. Why so much difference?

Chinese guy ok as long as the buy they drinks.

 

[Sinkiesuk]

Chinese guy ok as long as the buy they drinks.

Drinks? This one small thing. I only know if is marry to a chink girl, your side very happy like celebrating winning a trophy but the chink side look more upset.

 

[syed putra]

Drinks? This one small thing. I only know if is marry to a chink girl, your side very happy like celebrating winning a trophy but the chink side look more upset.

Its like avenging past injustice. Getting Chinese bride is thumbing the nose at your nemesis.

 

[Sinkiesuk]

Its like avenging past injustice. Getting Chinese bride is thumbing the nose at your nemesis.

Show your true colour liao. Is quite true sia. I went quite many ah neh and chink marriage and can tell huge difference sia. The ah neh side very happy but the chink side can tell quite upset.

 

[syed putra]

Show your true colour liao. Is quite true sia. I went quite many ah neh and chink marriage and can tell huge difference sia. The ah neh side very happy but the chink side can tell quite upset.

To the racist chinese, its downgrading.

 

[Sinkiesuk]

To the racist chinese, its downgrading.

Not really. More to the offspring don’t look yellow anymore. Sinkie chinks girls more diversify. Tiongs or even msian chinks girls will know the consequences that her offspring won’t be fair or yellow anymore.

Msian chink girls won’t like u anyway I know they are more racist. I remember a chio msian chink girl try to chase a ah neh out of the wedding but he was actually one of the friend. He very angry but she is chio so he forgive her.

 

[True Believer]

Its like avenging past injustice. Getting Chinese bride is thumbing the nose at your nemesis.

This is borne out of an inferiority complex. It's like black men who wish to conquer white girls as revenge for slavery and racial discrimination by Caucasians.

 

[superpower]

Many Indians have internalized racism - looking down on their own kind. So marrying a woman from the dominant race gives them a leg up in society, so to speak. Plus the association of skin colour with social status is so ingrained in Indian culture, even for 3rd and 4th generation Indians here, that any lightening of their progeny's skin tone is viewed as a positive. Just see how many Indian ministers in the cabinet have married outside their race. (Shan's mistress that led to his divorce is Chinese, by the way.)

Malays also value lighter skin color, but religion reigns supreme and most have been raised with the Islamic notion of universal brotherhood (under Islam, of course). So marrying outside the race is OK - Indian, Chinese, ang moh - as long as the kafir converts. That's why you have so many DKK (Halimah Yacob), DKA (Ahmand Mattar), Chinese mualaf (now running all kinds of halal stalls selling Chinese food) in the community.