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Serious 97yo Sinkie towkay wants to marry 50yo SYT mistress! Son try to stop but judge says go ahead!

it was acceptable and common in those days for towkays. they belong to that generation so nothing wrong with it. the child and grandchild prob got the wrong advice to try to stop it. even if the old man dies without a will, I think the mistress and her child will still get a share of the inheritance. He is just trying to be "morally" right by marrying her after all these years.
There are many ways to stop an old man from marrying his mistress and it’s rich people’s problem to go look for lawyer to stop it.

They should have spread the mistress have a fling with another man and has some child born out of wedlock 30 years ago. This kind of rich old uncle will blow up because they want face.
 
it was acceptable and common in those days for towkays. they belong to that generation so nothing wrong with it. the child and grandchild prob got the wrong advice to try to stop it. even if the old man dies without a will, I think the mistress and her child will still get a share of the inheritance. He is just trying to be "morally" right by marrying her after all these years.
Sound like 糖心风暴
 
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Mistress must be very Chio and can bbbj and cim well.

Singapore court rules man, 97, mentally fit to marry mistress​

The widower, who had an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, has filed separate lawsuits against his second son and grandson​

SCMP’s Asia desk4:13pm, 29 Jan 2026
A Singapore family court judge has ruled that a 97-year-old man possesses the mental capacity to decide for himself whether to marry his long-time secretary. Photo: Shutterstock

A Singapore court has dismissed a man’s attempt to have his 97-year-old father declared mentally incapable for wanting to marry his long-time mistress, with the judge saying that mental capacity should not be determined solely by age or appearance.

The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s, had been conducting an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, Chinese language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported on Tuesday, citing court proceedings.

The two had a child together, while he had three sons with his wife, whom he married in 1950. His wife, who died in 2014, was aware of the affair but did not divorce him.

In 2016, the secretary moved in with the businessman and his second son’s family. In mid-2021, the woman told the businessman’s family that she and the patriarch would be getting married on June 11 that year.

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This led to a family meeting. The secretary said that, as a Catholic, she wanted to be legally married, and if the family did not support her, she would leave.

The businessman’s second son filed an application in the family court asking that his father be ruled mentally incompetent and therefore incapable of making independent decisions, such as marriage. He claimed that, following a fall at home in 2017, his father’s mental capacity had deteriorated and that he showed signs of dementia.

A grandson of the businessman, who is the second son’s child, also filed a notice of objection against the marriage, but later withdrew it. Both father and son claimed that the patriarch was being influenced and manipulated by others.

Upon learning about the lawsuits, the businessman evicted the grandson and changed his will to state that neither of them would inherit any property unless they withdrew their applications.

The man also filed two civil suits – one against his second son to recover S$3.8 million in company money and another against his grandson for refusing to move out. Both suits are still pending.

Family court judge Shobha Nair dismissed the second son’s application. She pointed out that despite arguing his father’s loss of mental capacity in 2017, he still accepted the older man’s decision to appoint him as the company’s general manager in 2019. The second son has filed an appeal against the ruling.

As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision
Shobha Nair, family court judge

Recorded conversations between the businessman and his grandson also showed the patriarch knew what he was doing, Nair said. His slower speech, asking people to repeat themselves and occasional confusion could be just age-related and not a sign of dementia.

Doctors who assessed the businessman said that he had mild cognitive impairment, including short-term memory loss. But this did not impair his understanding or his ability to make decisions such as marriage and will revisions.

In her judgment, Nair urged the public not to speculate why a 97-year-old would want to remarry, saying: “As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision.”

The court’s role was solely to determine if the man decided on his own free will, not whether the decision was morally or logically acceptable, she said.

Nair found no evidence that the secretary was intending to defraud her employer of money, noting that the relationship lasted 50 years – longer than many marriages.

The sons’ actions were likely triggered by their father’s decision to remarry, as it made them relive the pain of watching their mother suffer from the affair, she added.

Citing Singapore’s Mental Capacity Act, she warned against making assumptions about an elderly person’s cognitive abilities based on age, appearance or behaviour.

There are about 1,800 centenarians in Singapore, around 20 per cent more than five years earlier, according to a CNA report on January 19.

Singapore is one of the fastest-ageing countries in the world. The number of citizens aged 80 or older had risen by about 60 per cent since 2015, according to a report by The Straits Times last September.

The Ministry of Health has projected that the country is set to attain “super aged” status – when the share of its population aged 65 and above crosses 21 per cent – this year. By 2030, that figure is expected to rise to a quarter of the population.

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The Lao Chio is >>50yrs old as the secret relationship is more than 50yrs since 1970s


Old Hero is a responsible man 有当当 :)
 
Nearing death's door, the old chap wants to do the right thing for the bitch who gave him the most sextisfaction best fucks in his life
 
There are many ways to stop an old man from marrying his mistress and it’s rich people’s problem to go look for lawyer to stop it.

They should have spread the mistress have a fling with another man and has some child born out of wedlock 30 years ago. This kind of rich old uncle will blow up because they want face.
hahaha, at 97, i doubt he would have any source to any rumours, let alone living verifiable sources. a simple DNA test would do
 
hahaha, at 97, i doubt he would have any source to any rumours, let alone living verifiable sources. a simple DNA test would do
At 97 I don’t think he have the time and energy for DNA test. Don’t want the heart ache also
 
the 97yo better transfer all his assets and money to his new wife or donate all to charity before die .... if not later his children and grandchildren will make legal battle to fight for every dollars that he left behind .... his pig sperms now mutant into all age of char siews liao ... :roflmao:
 
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Mistress must be very Chio and can bbbj and cim well.

Singapore court rules man, 97, mentally fit to marry mistress​

The widower, who had an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, has filed separate lawsuits against his second son and grandson​

SCMP’s Asia desk4:13pm, 29 Jan 2026
A Singapore family court judge has ruled that a 97-year-old man possesses the mental capacity to decide for himself whether to marry his long-time secretary. Photo: Shutterstock

A Singapore court has dismissed a man’s attempt to have his 97-year-old father declared mentally incapable for wanting to marry his long-time mistress, with the judge saying that mental capacity should not be determined solely by age or appearance.

The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s, had been conducting an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, Chinese language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported on Tuesday, citing court proceedings.

The two had a child together, while he had three sons with his wife, whom he married in 1950. His wife, who died in 2014, was aware of the affair but did not divorce him.

In 2016, the secretary moved in with the businessman and his second son’s family. In mid-2021, the woman told the businessman’s family that she and the patriarch would be getting married on June 11 that year.

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This led to a family meeting. The secretary said that, as a Catholic, she wanted to be legally married, and if the family did not support her, she would leave.

The businessman’s second son filed an application in the family court asking that his father be ruled mentally incompetent and therefore incapable of making independent decisions, such as marriage. He claimed that, following a fall at home in 2017, his father’s mental capacity had deteriorated and that he showed signs of dementia.

A grandson of the businessman, who is the second son’s child, also filed a notice of objection against the marriage, but later withdrew it. Both father and son claimed that the patriarch was being influenced and manipulated by others.

Upon learning about the lawsuits, the businessman evicted the grandson and changed his will to state that neither of them would inherit any property unless they withdrew their applications.

The man also filed two civil suits – one against his second son to recover S$3.8 million in company money and another against his grandson for refusing to move out. Both suits are still pending.

Family court judge Shobha Nair dismissed the second son’s application. She pointed out that despite arguing his father’s loss of mental capacity in 2017, he still accepted the older man’s decision to appoint him as the company’s general manager in 2019. The second son has filed an appeal against the ruling.

As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision
Shobha Nair, family court judge

Recorded conversations between the businessman and his grandson also showed the patriarch knew what he was doing, Nair said. His slower speech, asking people to repeat themselves and occasional confusion could be just age-related and not a sign of dementia.

Doctors who assessed the businessman said that he had mild cognitive impairment, including short-term memory loss. But this did not impair his understanding or his ability to make decisions such as marriage and will revisions.

In her judgment, Nair urged the public not to speculate why a 97-year-old would want to remarry, saying: “As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision.”

The court’s role was solely to determine if the man decided on his own free will, not whether the decision was morally or logically acceptable, she said.

Nair found no evidence that the secretary was intending to defraud her employer of money, noting that the relationship lasted 50 years – longer than many marriages.

The sons’ actions were likely triggered by their father’s decision to remarry, as it made them relive the pain of watching their mother suffer from the affair, she added.

Citing Singapore’s Mental Capacity Act, she warned against making assumptions about an elderly person’s cognitive abilities based on age, appearance or behaviour.

There are about 1,800 centenarians in Singapore, around 20 per cent more than five years earlier, according to a CNA report on January 19.

Singapore is one of the fastest-ageing countries in the world. The number of citizens aged 80 or older had risen by about 60 per cent since 2015, according to a report by The Straits Times last September.

The Ministry of Health has projected that the country is set to attain “super aged” status – when the share of its population aged 65 and above crosses 21 per cent – this year. By 2030, that figure is expected to rise to a quarter of the population.

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Mistress must be very Chio and can bbbj and cim well.

SCMP’s Asia desk4:13pm, 29 Jan 2026
A Singapore family court judge has ruled that a 97-year-old man possesses the mental capacity to decide for himself whether to marry his long-time secretary. Photo: Shutterstock

A Singapore court has dismissed a man’s attempt to have his 97-year-old father declared mentally incapable for wanting to marry his long-time mistress, with the judge saying that mental capacity should not be determined solely by age or appearance.

The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s, had been conducting an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, Chinese language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported on Tuesday, citing court proceedings.

The two had a child together, while he had three sons with his wife, whom he married in 1950. His wife, who died in 2014, was aware of the affair but did not divorce him.

In 2016, the secretary moved in with the businessman and his second son’s family. In mid-2021, the woman told the businessman’s family that she and the patriarch would be getting married on June 11 that year.


This led to a family meeting. The secretary said that, as a Catholic, she wanted to be legally married, and if the family did not support her, she would leave.

The businessman’s second son filed an application in the family court asking that his father be ruled mentally incompetent and therefore incapable of making independent decisions, such as marriage. He claimed that, following a fall at home in 2017, his father’s mental capacity had deteriorated and that he showed signs of dementia.

A grandson of the businessman, who is the second son’s child, also filed a notice of objection against the marriage, but later withdrew it. Both father and son claimed that the patriarch was being influenced and manipulated by others.

Upon learning about the lawsuits, the businessman evicted the grandson and changed his will to state that neither of them would inherit any property unless they withdrew their applications.

The man also filed two civil suits – one against his second son to recover S$3.8 million in company money and another against his grandson for refusing to move out. Both suits are still pending.

Family court judge Shobha Nair dismissed the second son’s application. She pointed out that despite arguing his father’s loss of mental capacity in 2017, he still accepted the older man’s decision to appoint him as the company’s general manager in 2019. The second son has filed an appeal against the ruling.

As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision
Shobha Nair, family court judge

Recorded conversations between the businessman and his grandson also showed the patriarch knew what he was doing, Nair said. His slower speech, asking people to repeat themselves and occasional confusion could be just age-related and not a sign of dementia.

Doctors who assessed the businessman said that he had mild cognitive impairment, including short-term memory loss. But this did not impair his understanding or his ability to make decisions such as marriage and will revisions.

In her judgment, Nair urged the public not to speculate why a 97-year-old would want to remarry, saying: “As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision.”

The court’s role was solely to determine if the man decided on his own free will, not whether the decision was morally or logically acceptable, she said.

Nair found no evidence that the secretary was intending to defraud her employer of money, noting that the relationship lasted 50 years – longer than many marriages.

The sons’ actions were likely triggered by their father’s decision to remarry, as it made them relive the pain of watching their mother suffer from the affair, she added.

Citing Singapore’s Mental Capacity Act, she warned against making assumptions about an elderly person’s cognitive abilities based on age, appearance or behaviour.

There are about 1,800 centenarians in Singapore, around 20 per cent more than five years earlier, according to a CNA report on January 19.

Singapore is one of the fastest-ageing countries in the world. The number of citizens aged 80 or older had risen by about 60 per cent since 2015, according to a report by The Straits Times last September.

The Ministry of Health has projected that the country is set to attain “super aged” status – when the share of its population aged 65 and above crosses 21 per cent – this year. By 2030, that figure is expected to rise to a quarter of the population.
 
"The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s "

Name of this Chemical Company kept a Secret. why ahhh... ?
 
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Mistress must be very Chio and can bbbj and cim well.

Singapore court rules man, 97, mentally fit to marry mistress​

The widower, who had an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, has filed separate lawsuits against his second son and grandson​

SCMP’s Asia desk4:13pm, 29 Jan 2026
A Singapore family court judge has ruled that a 97-year-old man possesses the mental capacity to decide for himself whether to marry his long-time secretary. Photo: Shutterstock

A Singapore court has dismissed a man’s attempt to have his 97-year-old father declared mentally incapable for wanting to marry his long-time mistress, with the judge saying that mental capacity should not be determined solely by age or appearance.

The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s, had been conducting an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, Chinese language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported on Tuesday, citing court proceedings.

The two had a child together, while he had three sons with his wife, whom he married in 1950. His wife, who died in 2014, was aware of the affair but did not divorce him.

In 2016, the secretary moved in with the businessman and his second son’s family. In mid-2021, the woman told the businessman’s family that she and the patriarch would be getting married on June 11 that year.

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This led to a family meeting. The secretary said that, as a Catholic, she wanted to be legally married, and if the family did not support her, she would leave.

The businessman’s second son filed an application in the family court asking that his father be ruled mentally incompetent and therefore incapable of making independent decisions, such as marriage. He claimed that, following a fall at home in 2017, his father’s mental capacity had deteriorated and that he showed signs of dementia.

A grandson of the businessman, who is the second son’s child, also filed a notice of objection against the marriage, but later withdrew it. Both father and son claimed that the patriarch was being influenced and manipulated by others.

Upon learning about the lawsuits, the businessman evicted the grandson and changed his will to state that neither of them would inherit any property unless they withdrew their applications.

The man also filed two civil suits – one against his second son to recover S$3.8 million in company money and another against his grandson for refusing to move out. Both suits are still pending.

Family court judge Shobha Nair dismissed the second son’s application. She pointed out that despite arguing his father’s loss of mental capacity in 2017, he still accepted the older man’s decision to appoint him as the company’s general manager in 2019. The second son has filed an appeal against the ruling.

As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision
Shobha Nair, family court judge

Recorded conversations between the businessman and his grandson also showed the patriarch knew what he was doing, Nair said. His slower speech, asking people to repeat themselves and occasional confusion could be just age-related and not a sign of dementia.

Doctors who assessed the businessman said that he had mild cognitive impairment, including short-term memory loss. But this did not impair his understanding or his ability to make decisions such as marriage and will revisions.

In her judgment, Nair urged the public not to speculate why a 97-year-old would want to remarry, saying: “As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision.”

The court’s role was solely to determine if the man decided on his own free will, not whether the decision was morally or logically acceptable, she said.

Nair found no evidence that the secretary was intending to defraud her employer of money, noting that the relationship lasted 50 years – longer than many marriages.

The sons’ actions were likely triggered by their father’s decision to remarry, as it made them relive the pain of watching their mother suffer from the affair, she added.

Citing Singapore’s Mental Capacity Act, she warned against making assumptions about an elderly person’s cognitive abilities based on age, appearance or behaviour.

There are about 1,800 centenarians in Singapore, around 20 per cent more than five years earlier, according to a CNA report on January 19.

Singapore is one of the fastest-ageing countries in the world. The number of citizens aged 80 or older had risen by about 60 per cent since 2015, according to a report by The Straits Times last September.

The Ministry of Health has projected that the country is set to attain “super aged” status – when the share of its population aged 65 and above crosses 21 per cent – this year. By 2030, that figure is expected to rise to a quarter of the population.

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Farking disgusting old swine
Can he still think --- maybe only of sex
lol
 
Cfm alot of quarrels over money went into many court case etc etc.. peo are greedy over money
 
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Mistress must be very Chio and can bbbj and cim well.

Singapore court rules man, 97, mentally fit to marry mistress​

The widower, who had an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, has filed separate lawsuits against his second son and grandson​

SCMP’s Asia desk4:13pm, 29 Jan 2026
A Singapore family court judge has ruled that a 97-year-old man possesses the mental capacity to decide for himself whether to marry his long-time secretary. Photo: Shutterstock

A Singapore court has dismissed a man’s attempt to have his 97-year-old father declared mentally incapable for wanting to marry his long-time mistress, with the judge saying that mental capacity should not be determined solely by age or appearance.

The elderly man, who is still chairman of the chemical company he founded in the 1960s, had been conducting an extramarital affair with his secretary since 1971, Chinese language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported on Tuesday, citing court proceedings.

The two had a child together, while he had three sons with his wife, whom he married in 1950. His wife, who died in 2014, was aware of the affair but did not divorce him.

In 2016, the secretary moved in with the businessman and his second son’s family. In mid-2021, the woman told the businessman’s family that she and the patriarch would be getting married on June 11 that year.

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This led to a family meeting. The secretary said that, as a Catholic, she wanted to be legally married, and if the family did not support her, she would leave.

The businessman’s second son filed an application in the family court asking that his father be ruled mentally incompetent and therefore incapable of making independent decisions, such as marriage. He claimed that, following a fall at home in 2017, his father’s mental capacity had deteriorated and that he showed signs of dementia.

A grandson of the businessman, who is the second son’s child, also filed a notice of objection against the marriage, but later withdrew it. Both father and son claimed that the patriarch was being influenced and manipulated by others.

Upon learning about the lawsuits, the businessman evicted the grandson and changed his will to state that neither of them would inherit any property unless they withdrew their applications.

The man also filed two civil suits – one against his second son to recover S$3.8 million in company money and another against his grandson for refusing to move out. Both suits are still pending.

Family court judge Shobha Nair dismissed the second son’s application. She pointed out that despite arguing his father’s loss of mental capacity in 2017, he still accepted the older man’s decision to appoint him as the company’s general manager in 2019. The second son has filed an appeal against the ruling.

As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision
Shobha Nair, family court judge

Recorded conversations between the businessman and his grandson also showed the patriarch knew what he was doing, Nair said. His slower speech, asking people to repeat themselves and occasional confusion could be just age-related and not a sign of dementia.

Doctors who assessed the businessman said that he had mild cognitive impairment, including short-term memory loss. But this did not impair his understanding or his ability to make decisions such as marriage and will revisions.

In her judgment, Nair urged the public not to speculate why a 97-year-old would want to remarry, saying: “As long as we confirm that the person involved possesses the mental capacity, we must respect his decision.”

The court’s role was solely to determine if the man decided on his own free will, not whether the decision was morally or logically acceptable, she said.

Nair found no evidence that the secretary was intending to defraud her employer of money, noting that the relationship lasted 50 years – longer than many marriages.

The sons’ actions were likely triggered by their father’s decision to remarry, as it made them relive the pain of watching their mother suffer from the affair, she added.

Citing Singapore’s Mental Capacity Act, she warned against making assumptions about an elderly person’s cognitive abilities based on age, appearance or behaviour.

There are about 1,800 centenarians in Singapore, around 20 per cent more than five years earlier, according to a CNA report on January 19.

Singapore is one of the fastest-ageing countries in the world. The number of citizens aged 80 or older had risen by about 60 per cent since 2015, according to a report by The Straits Times last September.

The Ministry of Health has projected that the country is set to attain “super aged” status – when the share of its population aged 65 and above crosses 21 per cent – this year. By 2030, that figure is expected to rise to a quarter of the population.

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You have severe comprehension problems. Woman ain't 50 years old; she has been fucked for 50 odd years since 1971.
 
You are a fucking retard. He is trying to do the honorable thing to give his mistress of so many years and their son a legal status.
The honorable thing for the old farking disgusting swine was not to cheat on his wife.
He can always give his new son money but creating a mess at his home for his wife and their legitimate children all these years resulting extreme stress for his first familee awards him the title of a old farking swine who should be given 1,000 lashes on his wrinkled ass.

And since you support such behaviour I suspect you are also a farking cheating old swine.

Solly arrrrrhhhhhh

lol
brbrbrbrbrbrbrururururuhahahahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
 
The honorable thing for the old farking disgusting swine was not to cheat on his wife.
He can always give his new son money but creating a mess at his home for his wife and their legitimate children all these years resulting extreme stress for his first familee awards him the title of a old farking swine who should be given 1,000 lashes on his wrinkled ass.

And since you support such behaviour I suspect you are also a farking cheating old swine.

Solly arrrrrhhhhhh

lol
brbrbrbrbrbrbrururururuhahahahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
You fucking retard. What is wrong with cheating if you can afford to do so. It is low ses like you who is always jealous of the lifestyle of the rich. Please go to uptron and upgrade yourself or continue to use your 2 fingers.
 
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