She distancing from friends and relative as still single or failed relationship.
Chances of getting ang mor very high in Bali.
No strategy as after a few months in Bali still dunno what to do. That means failed to hitch a ang mor as christmas high season passed already.
I prefer clear blue waters of south lombok to bali. No crowd. But hassle if need to extend visa as can only be done in jakarta or bali for long term stay.