Say you have a lady friend, I mean just a close friend not sexual. She's beautiful, single and independent. You are married, ok doesn't matter if you're married or not but you two spend lots of time together like going for meals and talking in the phone. She is now in her later 30s. One day she comes to you to seek your help, she told you because you're the only one she trust she'll like you to help her be a mother. No strings attached, she doesn't want you to be the kid's father, simply just your help to make her pregnant. What will you do? Any advise?
Desperate sperm bandit. These kind of women are the psycho ones who will do things like poking holes in condoms or lie about being on the pill or say things like 'it is safe this time of the month, let's do it raw'.
Avoid them like the plague. Tell her to go make her own sperm.
Remember, your sperm are like blank cheques with your signature on them. Women can and will sue for child support, especially if you're the biological father. Do you think the Family Court gives a rat's arse whether you had a verbal agreement that she promised to raise the kid by herself?
If you wanna fuck her, have a vasectomy first or use condoms. Deny her the goods that she wants: your sperm.
If she just wants you to be a sperm donor, tell her to fuck off.