Recent content by Butterfly

These days I head to the gym pretty often after work. There's this quite good-looking guy who's always there when I am there. Ok. I admit I have a crush on him and I do see him glancing at me or at my direction in the gym mirrors. I don't want to talk to men as I don't think I am ready for a...

I have no ulterior motive. If there's any, he just convenient person to have around when I need advice. Maybe I am just over sensitive over a simple message of his. I guess I should just ignore his message for tge time being.

"I'm thinking of you"... A man whom I have been talking to said this to me. How do I respond? I've been talking to this married man for over 4 months. We mainly WhatsApp or Telegram. He's a friend's friend. We chat about work, career, men, women, politics, cooking, foodie places, travel and...

It's has been nice chatting with both of you. Have a great week ahead. Time for me to hit the sack, otherwise I will get panda swollen eyes tomorrow.

I agree. I guess I have to focus on totality rather than individual aspects. Just like eating a hamburger, I may not like the pickles, but I have to eat everything together and get an overall feel and determine whether I can accept the hamburger as a total item.

Yep, I agree as well. Familiarity does breed contempt. Probably my weakness always looking for the perfect one that doesn't exist in real life.

What is within my control I will be able to avoid.

Ok. You probably ate more salt than I eat rice, as the Chinese saying goes.

I guess that's why I am still alone. Haha haha.

I agree. Though I don't understand the first part on concealing Gspot.

Jovial Gentlemanly No foul language Truthful about past relationships Can accept me paying for meals and other expenses during dates Sensible and not hot tempered

True to a certain extent. Not entirely if I am more cautious.

Maybe

Hahaha