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A loser.
1. One should earn as much and as fast as possible. Dont go thinking you will be able to work until your retirement age as you would like to plan. Illness may strike, and alot of unforseen circumstances etc.
2. If you are a winner, head hunters in the industry will be be hunting for you. So no need to worry about high turnover of the company.
3. Present company treating you well should not have any bearing for rejecting the new offer. You can still maintain good relationship with the former company and maybe help that company in the future when you are able, since they treated you well. Strengthen yourself to return the favor.Win win.
4. IMO, you are stagnant. You are afraid to lose your job if you go to the new company. Implies your expertise and experience is not in demand. Current new offer is by luck only. If one is headhunted, prospective employer can be very accommodating.
5. Seems that you have apprehension in taking challenges because you are not well equiped.
Bitter medicine is not nice, neither is sincere words comfortable to the ears.
I appreciated what you have said.