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Father's excuse to rape daughter: Too fat to have sex with wife
Source: The New Paper
HE WAS too fat to have sex with his wife the normal way. And when she offered to have anal intercourse with him, he felt it was not right to do so as it was against his religion.
So he turned on his 14-year-old daughter, raped her three times and got her pregnant.
Such was the 43-year-old odd job labourer’s twisted logic when he spoke to a psychiatrist.
It was the fault of his wife of 21 years, he said.
Never mind that it was he who had grown too fat for the act after serving six years in jail for aggravated molest against the same child.
As for raping his daughter again, he told the psychiatrist: “For me, nothing lah. I don’t think to harm her. She said don’t. I said to her, no need to worry.”
Yesterday, the man was jailed 36 years and given the maximum 24 strokes of the cane after he pleaded guilty to three charges of rape and one charge of sexual assault by penetration.
Four other charges including molest, having unnatural sex and possessing obscene films were taken into consideration during sentencing.
In 1998, he had been jailed six years and caned 12times for molesting the same daughter.
The victim, the younger of two children, was only six years old then.
The plump man showed no emotion when Deputy Public Prosecutor (DPP) Ramu Miyapan called him a “menacing beast” and an “incorrigible monster”.
We are not naming the man as there is a court order not to identify the victim, who is now 17 and schooling.
The court heard that the man first raped his daughter some time between February and September 2007, four years after he was released from jail.
He was alone at home with the girl when he called her into his room and told her to remove her clothes. The girl refused but complied after he insisted.
He made her perform oral sex on him and raped her.
More than a year later, in December 2008, the man again raped his daughter at home, this time after he watched a pornographic movie.
She became pregnant.
Six months later, on June 22 last year, the man was again watching a porn movie when he had the urge to have sex. He called his daughter to his bedroom and raped her.
The next day, the girl told her father that she had not had a period for a few months.
The man then took her out for dinner and bought a pregnancy test kit. The result was positive.
She immediately told her father, who was watching a porn movie.
He told her that if the matter came to light, she was to lie to the police that he had sex with her only once when he was drunk.
Right after saying that, he made the girl perform oral sex on him.
Later that day, when the man left home for work, the girl sent an SMS to her mother telling her that she needed to discuss an important matter with her.
The girl’s mother is a customer service operator who works shifts. When told about the sexual assaults, the woman got the girl and her sibling to pack their belongings. Together, they fled to a relative’s home.
The girl made a police report the next day. Her father was arrested that evening.
She was sent for a medical examination and was found to be 26 to 27 weeks pregnant.
The teenager delivered a baby girl in September last year. The baby was given up for adoption.
The court heard that this was not the first time the man had laid his hands on his daughter.
He began molesting the girl when she was only six and, in August 1998, he was convicted of two charges of aggravated molest against her.
DPP Ramu Miyapan told the court that back then, the man had said in his mitigation: “I love my family. Please give me another chance to redeem myself.”
Yet, he went on to commit the latest offences.
Mr Ramu added that the “obviously unrepentant” man had inflicted long-term psychological harm on his daughter.
In her victim impact statement, the girl said that she hated her father for hurting her. She had also developed grave concerns about being despised by boys her age.
Said Mr Ramu: “She has not been able to speak to anyone about the ordeals and lives in a world of fear that one day this sordid past may come back to haunt her.”
The girl said that she has flashbacks of the abuse.
Yesterday, the man, who did not have a lawyer, again pleaded for leniency.
In a handwritten letter, he asked the judge not to impose a harsh sentence on him.
He wrote: “I’m really repentant and remorseful. If Your Honour allows me to meet my children and wife, I’d like to ask for their forgiveness.
“This is my last request.”
His plea cut no ice with Justice Woo Bih Li.
Said the judge: “You’ve asked for leniency but this is not your first sexual offence... I agree with the prosecutor that you are an incorrigible monster.
“I cannot order your children and wife to see you. It’s up to them if they want to see you or not.”
None of his family members were in court.
For rape, the man could have been jailed 20 years and caned.
For committing sexual assault by penetration, he could have been jailed 20 years and caned.
Source: The New Paper
HE WAS too fat to have sex with his wife the normal way. And when she offered to have anal intercourse with him, he felt it was not right to do so as it was against his religion.
So he turned on his 14-year-old daughter, raped her three times and got her pregnant.
Such was the 43-year-old odd job labourer’s twisted logic when he spoke to a psychiatrist.
It was the fault of his wife of 21 years, he said.
Never mind that it was he who had grown too fat for the act after serving six years in jail for aggravated molest against the same child.
As for raping his daughter again, he told the psychiatrist: “For me, nothing lah. I don’t think to harm her. She said don’t. I said to her, no need to worry.”
Yesterday, the man was jailed 36 years and given the maximum 24 strokes of the cane after he pleaded guilty to three charges of rape and one charge of sexual assault by penetration.
Four other charges including molest, having unnatural sex and possessing obscene films were taken into consideration during sentencing.
In 1998, he had been jailed six years and caned 12times for molesting the same daughter.
The victim, the younger of two children, was only six years old then.
The plump man showed no emotion when Deputy Public Prosecutor (DPP) Ramu Miyapan called him a “menacing beast” and an “incorrigible monster”.
We are not naming the man as there is a court order not to identify the victim, who is now 17 and schooling.
The court heard that the man first raped his daughter some time between February and September 2007, four years after he was released from jail.
He was alone at home with the girl when he called her into his room and told her to remove her clothes. The girl refused but complied after he insisted.
He made her perform oral sex on him and raped her.
More than a year later, in December 2008, the man again raped his daughter at home, this time after he watched a pornographic movie.
She became pregnant.
Six months later, on June 22 last year, the man was again watching a porn movie when he had the urge to have sex. He called his daughter to his bedroom and raped her.
The next day, the girl told her father that she had not had a period for a few months.
The man then took her out for dinner and bought a pregnancy test kit. The result was positive.
She immediately told her father, who was watching a porn movie.
He told her that if the matter came to light, she was to lie to the police that he had sex with her only once when he was drunk.
Right after saying that, he made the girl perform oral sex on him.
Later that day, when the man left home for work, the girl sent an SMS to her mother telling her that she needed to discuss an important matter with her.
The girl’s mother is a customer service operator who works shifts. When told about the sexual assaults, the woman got the girl and her sibling to pack their belongings. Together, they fled to a relative’s home.
The girl made a police report the next day. Her father was arrested that evening.
She was sent for a medical examination and was found to be 26 to 27 weeks pregnant.
The teenager delivered a baby girl in September last year. The baby was given up for adoption.
The court heard that this was not the first time the man had laid his hands on his daughter.
He began molesting the girl when she was only six and, in August 1998, he was convicted of two charges of aggravated molest against her.
DPP Ramu Miyapan told the court that back then, the man had said in his mitigation: “I love my family. Please give me another chance to redeem myself.”
Yet, he went on to commit the latest offences.
Mr Ramu added that the “obviously unrepentant” man had inflicted long-term psychological harm on his daughter.
In her victim impact statement, the girl said that she hated her father for hurting her. She had also developed grave concerns about being despised by boys her age.
Said Mr Ramu: “She has not been able to speak to anyone about the ordeals and lives in a world of fear that one day this sordid past may come back to haunt her.”
The girl said that she has flashbacks of the abuse.
Yesterday, the man, who did not have a lawyer, again pleaded for leniency.
In a handwritten letter, he asked the judge not to impose a harsh sentence on him.
He wrote: “I’m really repentant and remorseful. If Your Honour allows me to meet my children and wife, I’d like to ask for their forgiveness.
“This is my last request.”
His plea cut no ice with Justice Woo Bih Li.
Said the judge: “You’ve asked for leniency but this is not your first sexual offence... I agree with the prosecutor that you are an incorrigible monster.
“I cannot order your children and wife to see you. It’s up to them if they want to see you or not.”
None of his family members were in court.
For rape, the man could have been jailed 20 years and caned.
For committing sexual assault by penetration, he could have been jailed 20 years and caned.
make me malu again:o
