By the way, sg men are HOT.
They are buff, filial to parents, considerate to family, loyal to friends, caring to gfs and they work hard for their families.
NS helps to keep them fit and buff. So quit complaining about NS.
For those guys whose gfs potong jalan during their NS days, at least you know that this relationship cannot survive an overseas posting. To be fair, the couple is usually quite young, so there. But don't blame NS.
Biggest problem with Sinkie men? They are COMPLAINERS.
Is there a forum in another country where the men go to complain about their women? There are so many china women working as sex workers, is there a single forum in china dedicated to COMPLAINING about this?
I've not seen a single country where people complain this much about a law.
I'm not defending women here, but fact is, Women's Charter is law. It is to protect women and children against irresponsible husbands. It is to secure the livelihood of children when men stray.
Men practice double standards. They complain about a law which stabilizes family life on a SEX FORUM where they get contacts for sex workers.
Those men who claim that so and so passed this law because he was scared of his wife. The opposite is true. He is a real man who respects his wife and cares for his family, so much so that he lets a law like this pass.
It is his irrevocable promise to his wife and family, that he too, be held accountable for his actions. That is what makes him a REAL MAN and the alpha male in this place. He could have been selfish and not do anything. If he chose it to be like that, you think the wife could do anything about it? You can fault this guy all you want, but the truth is, he's a good husband.
How many men take care of his sick wife the way he does, and he's an important man who can hire as many help as he wants. Can any of you men on the forum do what he does if you have a
young and beautiful wife who is sick? Have any of your guys fed your girlfriends porridge when she had a fever or help her walk when she sprained her ankle?
He did something for this country too: he sacrificed his self interest as a man so that the country's families can be more secure in the event a guy leaves his wife and children penniless.
It's not like Women's Charter ask for the sky in the breakup for a marriage. What's half a guy's money to his wife and kids? It's not ALL his money. It could be for his own kids education. If the wife shops all day and lets the children rot, then it's also his fault to choose a wife like that.
A single guy surviving on 50% of his money, VS a family of one wife and at least one kid on the other 50%. Is this not FAIR ENOUGH for men?
It's not like the wife actually gets half in most cases. She just gets what's reasonable. This is not USA where the divorce laws can really favour the spouse.
I'm not defending individual cases where the guy is truly aggrieved. I'm generalizing here.
If men are so unhappy about it, then don't get married. Women's Charter is a moot point if you are a single guy. It's not as if men don't know how to hide their money away prior to a divorce anyway.
If sinkie women are so bad, why are there so many threads in the sex forum about how sinkie men are conned by foreign women (usually professional sex workers)?
Laws are good for society. Would anyone want to live in a lawless land?
