Wife Redditer: The Affair Is Nice, but Divorce (often) Is the Only Way

[Insouciant]

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The Affair Is Nice, but Divorce (often) Is the Only Way​

Thoughts

I'm not talking about cake eaters.

When I entered this space I thought that having an affair would make me a better wife in some ways - I would tolerate the aspects of my spouse I disliked better, the dead bedroom would become more manageable, I even had an DADT relationship. I've always known that I'm most likely on the path for divorce. I should have simply made the decision to divorce months ago instead of, well, instead of having sex with a married man.

My husband has never discovered the affair, he's never said he suspects anything, and I am not in love with my AP, nor do I expect anything from him relationship wise. Life is not a fairytale.

But I did decide to rip the band aid off and start the process of divorce. I told my husband last week and it's been an emotional hell ever since. My AP has been ... unexpectedly wonderful and supportive.

I wish I had done this from the get go. If you're out there feeling like you need a divorce - just do it. Just do it.

I'm genuinely looking forward to not feeling like I'm cheating anymore. Having a clear mind, clear thoughts. No more married men. Anyone I date from now on will have a libido that matches mine, this is not something to be overlooked or neglected. Love does not conquer all, and while mismatched libidos are NOT the main factor contributing to my divorce, it's just one of the many things I wish I didn't ignore.

 

[WangChuk]

She should go part time prostitute herself to itch her lust and desire ... and earn some cash .... in addition to her monthly maintenance$ ... she can experience all the different dicks of various size, diameter and endurances that can make her mind fully sextisfied ... she is born to be a whore.

 

[eatshitndie]

She should go part time prostitute herself to itch her lust and desire ... and earn some cash .... in addition to her monthly maintenance$ ... she can experience all the different dicks of various size, diameter and endurances that can make her mind fully sextisfied ... she is born to be a whore.

or to be more selective she can cum to sbf and invite unkers to have discrete and secrete trysts with her. like what @charlottesg is doing. right @charlottesg?

 

[VanDick]

This emo bitch is not aware that her weak, flaccid hubby is also eating outside?

 

[metalrover]

Everyday eat the same cake not sian ah. Once she divorced and go into 2nd marriage, history will repeat itself. The married guy was enthusiastic due to the pure excitement of fucking ppls wife

 

[Dongyi]

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The Affair Is Nice, but Divorce (often) Is the Only Way​

Thoughts

I'm not talking about cake eaters.

When I entered this space I thought that having an affair would make me a better wife in some ways - I would tolerate the aspects of my spouse I disliked better, the dead bedroom would become more manageable, I even had an DADT relationship. I've always known that I'm most likely on the path for divorce. I should have simply made the decision to divorce months ago instead of, well, instead of having sex with a married man.

My husband has never discovered the affair, he's never said he suspects anything, and I am not in love with my AP, nor do I expect anything from him relationship wise. Life is not a fairytale.

But I did decide to rip the band aid off and start the process of divorce. I told my husband last week and it's been an emotional hell ever since. My AP has been ... unexpectedly wonderful and supportive.

I wish I had done this from the get go. If you're out there feeling like you need a divorce - just do it. Just do it.

I'm genuinely looking forward to not feeling like I'm cheating anymore. Having a clear mind, clear thoughts. No more married men. Anyone I date from now on will have a libido that matches mine, this is not something to be overlooked or neglected. Love does not conquer all, and while mismatched libidos are NOT the main factor contributing to my divorce, it's just one of the many things I wish I didn't ignore.

I see you at Gaysorn Plaza later.

 

[Sustanon]

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The Affair Is Nice, but Divorce (often) Is the Only Way​

Thoughts

I'm not talking about cake eaters.

When I entered this space I thought that having an affair would make me a better wife in some ways - I would tolerate the aspects of my spouse I disliked better, the dead bedroom would become more manageable, I even had an DADT relationship. I've always known that I'm most likely on the path for divorce. I should have simply made the decision to divorce months ago instead of, well, instead of having sex with a married man.

My husband has never discovered the affair, he's never said he suspects anything, and I am not in love with my AP, nor do I expect anything from him relationship wise. Life is not a fairytale.

But I did decide to rip the band aid off and start the process of divorce. I told my husband last week and it's been an emotional hell ever since. My AP has been ... unexpectedly wonderful and supportive.

I wish I had done this from the get go. If you're out there feeling like you need a divorce - just do it. Just do it.

I'm genuinely looking forward to not feeling like I'm cheating anymore. Having a clear mind, clear thoughts. No more married men. Anyone I date from now on will have a libido that matches mine, this is not something to be overlooked or neglected. Love does not conquer all, and while mismatched libidos are NOT the main factor contributing to my divorce, it's just one of the many things I wish I didn't ignore.

 

[Dongyi]

CECA no such thing. You raped her, must marry you.

 

[syed putra]

For women, divorce have no financial risk. Most likely monetary gain.
She must be bossy for husband to shun off sex. Or offended him until Spirit broken.
What the hell is AP.
Hope she hang around those high end clubs maybe can bump into her.

 

[Sustanon]

CECA no such thing. You raped her, must marry you.

No need to resort to rape, drug, coercion, etc.... these are not what a gentleman like me will do. I will date them and give them love and attention like I would with any other girls that I am interested in. If she says NO, sure I will respect that and just move on to another CECA Bu (at least 30,000 bonkable CECA Bus in SG); no need to be salty about it. Of course ultimately it will be her in the bedroom opening the SBPSBHJ door between her legs for me voluntarily

 

[Insouciant]

I see you at Gaysorn Plaza later.

I so far away.....u come Central Westgate in Nonthaburi 可以吗?

 

[syed putra]

 

[syed putra]

Xi wo tiao will be handy when i visit china. Plenty of divorcees there too.

 

[Sustanon]

 

[WangChuk]

CECA no such thing. You raped her, must marry you.

so good one ah? wow .... must go Bollywood lape a few ceca chiobus then ....

 

[Dongyi]

so good one ah? wow .... must go Bollywood lape a few ceca chiobus then ....

You can form a tag team with @Sustanon

 

[glockman]

No need to resort to rape, drug, coercion, etc.... these are not what a gentleman like me will do. I will date them and give them love and attention like I would with any other girls that I am interested in. If she says NO, sure I will respect that and just move on to another CECA Bu (at least 30,000 bonkable CECA Bus in SG); no need to be salty about it. Of course ultimately it will be her in the bedroom opening the SBPSBHJ door between her legs for me voluntarily

boh chio!

 

[eatshitndie]

Everyday eat the same cake not sian ah. Once she divorced and go into 2nd marriage, history will repeat itself. The married guy was enthusiastic due to the pure excitement of fucking ppls wife

and cumming raw in an itchy lobang without worrying about her getting pregnant.

 

[syed putra]

Obviously melvin wants more kids and PAP should urge him on.