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I dont consider myself as low SES given my family background. Parents do earn a decent income previously, good enough to support me living comfortably. Am earning a salary of roughly 4k take home(1yr in workforce). Lives in jurong area too, HDB.
Ex gf was final year in uni, higher SES than me. Lives in condo near town area. Their parents combined income is 40k++/mth.
Gave it a shot for the rs, Started off with me paying for meals (still affordable). Then buying her gift (still okay, who doesnt like to be pamperred). Then paying for our overseas trip (almost my limit). After a yr, she started demanding for branded goods. i refused and she said ‘i have changed blah blah’. broke up soon after.
Conclusion, is to set your expectations and HERS when yall wanna get serious. I didnt do that and always gave in. Thats why wasted 1 yr. haiz.
Ex gf was final year in uni, higher SES than me. Lives in condo near town area. Their parents combined income is 40k++/mth.
Gave it a shot for the rs, Started off with me paying for meals (still affordable). Then buying her gift (still okay, who doesnt like to be pamperred). Then paying for our overseas trip (almost my limit). After a yr, she started demanding for branded goods. i refused and she said ‘i have changed blah blah’. broke up soon after.
Conclusion, is to set your expectations and HERS when yall wanna get serious. I didnt do that and always gave in. Thats why wasted 1 yr. haiz.