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My first Quirk is non-sexual in nature, while my second Quirk is sex-related.
I am not sure whether anyone else has these funny Quirks like me. If you do, I hope you can share anonymously here in this forum.
For me at least, no one will know who I am in real life, despite having these two rather stupid and embarrassing Quirks.
Before I begin, I also have to admit that I have a selfish reason for starting this thread. I want to "comfort" myself that I am not alone having Quirks, especially these two Embarrassing Quirks (when other Sammyboyers share their Quirks).
Sorry.
Ok, let me quickly begin on my First Embarrassing Quirk.
My first Embarrassing Quirk is I absolutely hate sharing food.
Yes, I hated it from young.
And Yes, even up to this very day.
As I grow older, I am adapting to being able to, grudgingly, but I still dislike having to share food, whether with my GF, mother, younger brother, lady boss, friends or colleagues. I simply do not like it!
When I was young, if ever my mum took food from my plate, tray, bowl etc and made me share with my younger brother or herself, I would just stop eating.
Nope, I wouldn't kick up a ruckus. I would just stop eating. If my parents asked why I stopped eating, I would politely say I am full, even If I hadn't even touch the food. I believed my Quirk frustrated my mum a hell lot. She would start screaming at me for wasting food, blah blah blah and so on so forth.
My late dad knew my Quirk much earlier. So if we were in McDonald's, KFC, food centres, or hawker centres, he would order individual set meals for me alone. He would sometimes share with my younger brother and never me. He knew I won't eat at all if my food is shared, whether in the beginning or in the midst of my meal. It was so bad that I wouldn't even share my French Fries. If my late dad is to take a piece and eat it, I would just stopped eating altogether. He could have all the remainder fries he wanted!
The only exception that I was able to share food is eating in a restaurant where my parents ordered dishes and I picked what I wanted to eat from the many dishes on the lazy susan wheel.
(But I think that somehow, this Chinese restaurant situation isn't considered sharing my food. I also do not know why there's this exception in my quirky behaviour).
I often ask myself why do I have this embarrassing Quirk.
Worse, it is still evident in me, when I am already in my above mid 30s (though I am improving and adapting).
Many times, I question my own sanity why I have this embarrassing Quirk. I am still soul searching for the true (or.closest) answer.
First, it isn't because I am selfish that I do not want to share my food. I rather let the other person eat the whole plate of charkwayteow or fried hokkien mee. So, I am absolutely sure selfishness does not motivate my quirky behaviour.
The only closest explanation I can arrive at is that I do not want to miss out the completeness of my meal.
For example, I order a plate of nasi lemak comprising of chicken wing, sambal chilli, ikan bilis, and sunny side up egg. Then my GF says she wants to share with me because she doesn't want to eat a whole plate by herself and grow fat.
To me, its like WTF lor! Half my chicken wing is gone, half my delicious sunny side up is gone with the damn watery egg yolk leaking all over my plate and making a mess. Worse, the sambal chili is definitely not enough for me as I have to share half with her.
As a result of sharing, I cannot thoroughly enjoy me meal.
The completeness of my meal is compromised!
There are other sharing food examples which irritate me a damn lot. I will talk about them in later posts.
That's all for now.
The MRT is arriving soon at my alighting station for my office.
I am not sure whether anyone else has these funny Quirks like me. If you do, I hope you can share anonymously here in this forum.
For me at least, no one will know who I am in real life, despite having these two rather stupid and embarrassing Quirks.
Before I begin, I also have to admit that I have a selfish reason for starting this thread. I want to "comfort" myself that I am not alone having Quirks, especially these two Embarrassing Quirks (when other Sammyboyers share their Quirks).
Sorry.
Ok, let me quickly begin on my First Embarrassing Quirk.
My first Embarrassing Quirk is I absolutely hate sharing food.
Yes, I hated it from young.
And Yes, even up to this very day.
As I grow older, I am adapting to being able to, grudgingly, but I still dislike having to share food, whether with my GF, mother, younger brother, lady boss, friends or colleagues. I simply do not like it!
When I was young, if ever my mum took food from my plate, tray, bowl etc and made me share with my younger brother or herself, I would just stop eating.
Nope, I wouldn't kick up a ruckus. I would just stop eating. If my parents asked why I stopped eating, I would politely say I am full, even If I hadn't even touch the food. I believed my Quirk frustrated my mum a hell lot. She would start screaming at me for wasting food, blah blah blah and so on so forth.
My late dad knew my Quirk much earlier. So if we were in McDonald's, KFC, food centres, or hawker centres, he would order individual set meals for me alone. He would sometimes share with my younger brother and never me. He knew I won't eat at all if my food is shared, whether in the beginning or in the midst of my meal. It was so bad that I wouldn't even share my French Fries. If my late dad is to take a piece and eat it, I would just stopped eating altogether. He could have all the remainder fries he wanted!
The only exception that I was able to share food is eating in a restaurant where my parents ordered dishes and I picked what I wanted to eat from the many dishes on the lazy susan wheel.
(But I think that somehow, this Chinese restaurant situation isn't considered sharing my food. I also do not know why there's this exception in my quirky behaviour).
I often ask myself why do I have this embarrassing Quirk.
Worse, it is still evident in me, when I am already in my above mid 30s (though I am improving and adapting).
Many times, I question my own sanity why I have this embarrassing Quirk. I am still soul searching for the true (or.closest) answer.
First, it isn't because I am selfish that I do not want to share my food. I rather let the other person eat the whole plate of charkwayteow or fried hokkien mee. So, I am absolutely sure selfishness does not motivate my quirky behaviour.
The only closest explanation I can arrive at is that I do not want to miss out the completeness of my meal.
For example, I order a plate of nasi lemak comprising of chicken wing, sambal chilli, ikan bilis, and sunny side up egg. Then my GF says she wants to share with me because she doesn't want to eat a whole plate by herself and grow fat.
To me, its like WTF lor! Half my chicken wing is gone, half my delicious sunny side up is gone with the damn watery egg yolk leaking all over my plate and making a mess. Worse, the sambal chili is definitely not enough for me as I have to share half with her.
As a result of sharing, I cannot thoroughly enjoy me meal.
The completeness of my meal is compromised!
There are other sharing food examples which irritate me a damn lot. I will talk about them in later posts.
That's all for now.
The MRT is arriving soon at my alighting station for my office.
