They read too much accounts receivable & payables.....if you are not able to pay, you do not receive, for her 'books' cannot receive, never mind her BOOBS or her..
You want to have it good...you must have your P&L statement, better be good...that is why you get a 'dead fish' in bed.
Might as well, DIY & don't get married & find yourself in financial ruins later & enter the state of BANKRUPTCY.