You have no idea why ? Haven't you been reading Tony's thesis on MGTOW ? You incur the wrath of MGTOW in this forum by being "too nice" to your not-yet-gf-gf, and now you wonder why bad boys are more attractive to gal ?
Girls are like that. You give them an inch they want a foot. If you are nice to them, their ego feels good and they want you to be around to soothe their ego. But that does not mean they are attracted to you. Attraction is a different ball game altogether.
You sacrifice, be it money or dignity, to win their affection, you are appealing to their greed or sympathy. Ask yourself this. Would you be attracted to a girl to whom you were not initially attracted just because she buy you expensive gifts or bend down every time at your beck and call ? You will use her to keep you company as long as you don't have an alternative choice, but the fact remains you are not attracted to her.
Girls are like shadows. You try chasing your own shadow and you will forever be chasing. But if you go MGTOW ---- you notice the shadow will be chasing you wherever you go.
What the Sinkie girl omitted to mention was the term "self-confidence". I see a lot of young couples on board MRT and buses. They guys are always very tentative, and the impression that I get is they are so afraid to lose the girl. Such a lack of confidence is so glaringly obvious to a third party like me, so don't tell me the girl don't know meh ? The girl will only exploit this lack of confidence until she finds another guy with self-confidence.
In the battlefield, if you are not afraid to lose your life, you are a hero beaming with self-confidence. In romance, if you are no afraid to lose your woman, you are a self-confident MGTOW.