I met this girl during my cousin's birthday gathering. She is not my relative or related to my family in any way. She was one of a group of friends that my cousin invited home for the party.
Cut the long story short, i didn't really pay much attention to her or her friends because they were just a rowdy bunch of XMM having their own teenager kind of fun and we adults just left them alone to do their thing.
Later however I was surprised when she wanted to exchange numbers with me. I thought there was no harm.
Within a few days we were WhatsApping each other many times a day and then we started to see each other. Yesterday, she asked me to be her boyfriend. I was quite worried and skeptical as I thought why would a 17 year old girl want to befriend a guy so much older than her? I thought she could be just wanting to use me as a money tree the same way my ex used me as a money tree to fund her lavish lifestyle.
This girl is really sweet and innocent and she doesn't appear to have very much guile. What should I do? Should I go ahead? She is really pretty and sweet and although she admitted she is not a virgin anymore (she lost it to her ex some months back), I really want to bed her.
I just hope this is not a recipe for disaster. I am over twice her age ....
Cut the long story short, i didn't really pay much attention to her or her friends because they were just a rowdy bunch of XMM having their own teenager kind of fun and we adults just left them alone to do their thing.
Later however I was surprised when she wanted to exchange numbers with me. I thought there was no harm.
Within a few days we were WhatsApping each other many times a day and then we started to see each other. Yesterday, she asked me to be her boyfriend. I was quite worried and skeptical as I thought why would a 17 year old girl want to befriend a guy so much older than her? I thought she could be just wanting to use me as a money tree the same way my ex used me as a money tree to fund her lavish lifestyle.
This girl is really sweet and innocent and she doesn't appear to have very much guile. What should I do? Should I go ahead? She is really pretty and sweet and although she admitted she is not a virgin anymore (she lost it to her ex some months back), I really want to bed her.
I just hope this is not a recipe for disaster. I am over twice her age ....