KJ is not the monster people make him out to be. If you know him personally, you'll find him a sincere and good-hearted chap.
However, he can't hang on to his party members, who come and go as if RP were a overnight motel on the political highway. The chief reasons being:
– Indecisive leadership
– Preferring to confer with his wife on major decisions, thus bypassing the CEC
– Mild autism, which makes him a poor reader of human emotion and a poor communicator.
You can speak angrily with him, but he'll smile back at you. It's a developmental deficit, and he's not cut out to be a politician or diplomat.