Let positive energies be the driving force for reality change

[OverTheCounter]

Whenever you encounter an upsetting or unsettling experience in life, react not with thoughts or deeds of vengeance, negativity, or bitterness. Such sentiment only reinforces the beliefs that brought the unfortunate event about. Such a reaction only sends out telepathic signals for other people to continue behaving in the same destructive fashion. Such thoughts and emotions only re-create the same reality that causes you unhappiness or displeasure.

Instead, as contradictory or as counter-intuitive as it may sound, send out positive, healthy messages both to yourself and to all people concerned with the event, whether you view those concerned as aggressors, victims, or allies. Wish them well, and wish yourself well. Suggest that your own positivity take over and dissolve all the negative feelings and emotions associated with the event. Let your own positive energies re-create the experience in a better fashion, as surely the energies that you send out re-create both past and future.

What you recognize as important then is not the circumstances that cause you grief, or the need to rectify an injustice, or the need to restore your honour or your good name. Turn not your own reality into a court of judgement where you feel the recurring need to prove and defend your honour and right every injustice that happens to you. Once you begin doing so, you allow others to take over the course of your life. You are only running around in circles, because the underlying beliefs have not been addressed.

You take the initiative by being a conscious creator of your own reality and letting your positive beliefs, thoughts and emotions take centre stage. Reinforce your feelings of self worth and self esteem. Send out positive energies both to yourself and to the people you come into contact with. Under the new framework, there are no more victims or aggressors because those circumstances that created victims and aggressors are no longer reinforced, but allowed to melt away harmlessly.

You create a better reality by taking charge and recognizing that the power and the initiative lies within you.​

 

[Leongsam]

Whenever you encounter an upsetting or unsettling experience in life, react not with thoughts or deeds of vengeance, negativity, or bitterness. Such sentiment only reinforces the beliefs that brought the unfortunate event about. Such a reaction only sends out telepathic signals for other people to continue behaving in the same destructive fashion. Such thoughts and emotions only re-create the same reality that causes you unhappiness or displeasure.

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You're going to have a hard time convincing the twits here. They are driven by negativity more than anything else.

 

[krafty]

for me, when i am drunk, i will tend to be emo, then start cursing and swearing in this forum. other than that, i am a strong prick...seems like there is no difference between drunk and sober for me...:o

 

[tonychat]

Whenever you encounter an upsetting or unsettling experience in life, react not with thoughts or deeds of vengeance, negativity, or bitterness. Such sentiment only reinforces the beliefs that brought the unfortunate event about. Such a reaction only sends out telepathic signals for other people to continue behaving in the same destructive fashion. Such thoughts and emotions only re-create the same reality that causes you unhappiness or displeasure.

Instead, as contradictory or as counter-intuitive as it may sound, send out positive, healthy messages both to yourself and to all people concerned with the event, whether you view those concerned as aggressors, victims, or allies. Wish them well, and wish yourself well. Suggest that your own positivity take over and dissolve all the negative feelings and emotions associated with the event. Let your own positive energies re-create the experience in a better fashion, as surely the energies that you send out re-create both past and future.

What you recognize as important then is not the circumstances that cause you grief, or the need to rectify an injustice, or the need to restore your honour or your good name. Turn not your own reality into a court of judgement where you feel the recurring need to prove and defend your honour and right every injustice that happens to you. Once you begin doing so, you allow others to take over the course of your life. You are only running around in circles, because the underlying beliefs have not been addressed.

You take the initiative by being a conscious creator of your own reality and letting your positive beliefs, thoughts and emotions take centre stage. Reinforce your feelings of self worth and self esteem. Send out positive energies both to yourself and to the people you come into contact with. Under the new framework, there are no more victims or aggressors because those circumstances that created victims and aggressors are no longer reinforced, but allowed to melt away harmlessly.

You create a better reality by taking charge and recognizing that the power and the initiative lies within you.​

positive belief, thoughts and emotions does not come to a person who has self-interest or self-centered thoughts or intention.

Positive belief, thoughts and emotions only comes to a person when he has selfless motivation or intention for the greater good.

It is a very simple equation.

Most of the negativity happening around in this world is caused by emphasis of self-interest without wisdom. Go figure it out.

 

[blissquek]

Whenever you encounter an upsetting or unsettling experience in life, react not with thoughts or deeds of vengeance, negativity, or bitterness. Such sentiment only reinforces the beliefs that brought the unfortunate event about. Such a reaction only sends out telepathic signals for other people to continue behaving in the same destructive fashion. Such thoughts and emotions only re-create the same reality that causes you unhappiness or displeasure.

Instead, as contradictory or as counter-intuitive as it may sound, send out positive, healthy messages both to yourself and to all people concerned with the event, whether you view those concerned as aggressors, victims, or allies. Wish them well, and wish yourself well. Suggest that your own positivity take over and dissolve all the negative feelings and emotions associated with the event. Let your own positive energies re-create the experience in a better fashion, as surely the energies that you send out re-create both past and future.

What you recognize as important then is not the circumstances that cause you grief, or the need to rectify an injustice, or the need to restore your honour or your good name. Turn not your own reality into a court of judgement where you feel the recurring need to prove and defend your honour and right every injustice that happens to you. Once you begin doing so, you allow others to take over the course of your life. You are only running around in circles, because the underlying beliefs have not been addressed.

You take the initiative by being a conscious creator of your own reality and letting your positive beliefs, thoughts and emotions take centre stage. Reinforce your feelings of self worth and self esteem. Send out positive energies both to yourself and to the people you come into contact with. Under the new framework, there are no more victims or aggressors because those circumstances that created victims and aggressors are no longer reinforced, but allowed to melt away harmlessly.

You create a better reality by taking charge and recognizing that the power and the initiative lies within you.​

Where u get this sauce ?...( from your own life trails and errors.?)

Quite tasty...

 

[greenies]

It is nice to have ref. where TS quoted.
Otherwise, this forum would be accused of plagiarism.
Boss Sam could be used by original writers.

 

[Leongsam]

It is nice to have ref. where TS quoted.
Otherwise, this forum would be accused of plagiarism.
Boss Sam could be used by original writers.

How do you know it's a quote and not something he authored himself?

 

[hofmann]

positive belief, thoughts and emotions does not come to a person who has self-interest or self-centered thoughts or intention.

Positive belief, thoughts and emotions only comes to a person when he has selfless motivation or intention for the greater good.

It is a very simple equation.

Most of the negativity happening around in this world is caused by emphasis of self-interest without wisdom. Go figure it out.

positive belief alone can be counterproductive to those who have an already low self esteem.

Self-Help Suicides and the Danger of Positive Thinking

 

[Runifyouhaveto]

Just scolded a customer this morning. He had been very demanding lately.
Suddenly feel so relieved. I am lucky, at least I have a choice to walk away. Many of my peers will have to tolerate such shit.

I think life is like that. Because we cling on to it, bad people exploit us further; the knot gets tighter. When we walk away, there's nothing they can do with us anymore, the problems will be gone. don't need to fight, don't need to quarrel

 

[OverTheCounter]

You're going to have a hard time convincing the twits here. They are driven by negativity more than anything else.

I know.

Purpose is not to convince, but merely to share. Perfectly fine even if everyone disagrees with me.

 

[OverTheCounter]

It is nice to have ref. where TS quoted.
Otherwise, this forum would be accused of plagiarism.
Boss Sam could be used by original writers.

This is an excerpt from my personal unpublished writings.

 

[Leongsam]

This is an excerpt from my personal unpublished writings.

Can we have more please. This is quality stuff.

 

[GOD IS MY DOG]

You're going to have a hard time convincing the twits here. They are driven by negativity more than anything else.

otherwise how this mickey mouse forum survive ?

 

[Leongsam]

otherwise how this mickey mouse forum survive ?

I'd prefer 10% of the current volume of traffic as long as it's all positive.

 

[LEGEND]

You're going to have a hard time convincing the twits here. They are driven by negativity more than anything else.

Hello, I am very positive, ok! :oIo:

 

[jw5]

He was influenced by the unusual font.

How do you know it's a quote and not something he authored himself?

 

[krafty]

i like this post by overthecounter,, reminds me to focus on my own well-being.

 

[Froggy]

When come across negative people best is walk away. It's his own life nothing can change him. He need to get a hard knock one fine day and hopefully will wake up. If come across positive people hang on to these people.

 

[Sinkie]

Like a blind man touching an elephant.........where he touches, he believes the elephant looks like what he touches.

Far from it, but you can't fathom you're groping in the dark only, if you're blind.

I do not subscribe to the western crap of positive thinking. Sure it will give you a high, but only for a limited duration
and you're still back to where you started, and maybe worse off.

Life is filled with ups and downs, so positive as well as negative thinkings are inherent facts of life. Deal with it.

There is a time to sow and a time to reap. Being sad and unhappy are natural feelings of grief and bad things happen in life.

It is extremely counter-productive to act positive and laugh when the occasion speaks otherwise. You're just not allowing the
episode to run its full course by artificially bailing out and rushing for the emotional blanket the moment something unpleasant or
bad happens.

You only need the Serenity Prayer, when the going gets really tough and things do not get better and could get worse and your life and what is happening around you are filled with uncertainty and death is in the air, for example, to someone close to you, or yourself.

You don't need much else, frankly.

 

[OverTheCounter]

He was influenced by the unusual font.

The unusual font is caused by cutting and pasting from an MS Word document i typed up some years ago.