20 Things That Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

[tonychat]

But why must you begged QXD and other Bros to help you obtained a working Visa in Ozz Land..???

Isn't that a character of a desperate low life loser..????

maybe you got this wrong, i have not work for anyone for years.. and the only visa i go for is the investment visa..hard truth to you..so sad..

 

[zeddy]

maybe you got this wrong, i have not work for anyone for years.. and the only visa i go for is the investment visa..hard truth to you..so sad..

So you saying QXD was lying and making up stories about you..????

 

[tonychat]

So you saying QXD was lying and making up stories about you..????

exactly!!!

 

[zeddy]

exactly!!!

Why must he do that to discredit you? Jealousy..???

 

[tonychat]

Why must he do that to discredit you? Jealousy..???

He is a sinkie!!! come on..you mean you just joined this forum today????

ask yourself, what have i done that has harm others immensely.. did anyone get hurt , cheated or abused?

the only one who is feared by all my posts are the PAPs...

 

[ykhuser]

especially for those crony sinkies who get jealous of others success.

http://elitedaily.com/life/motivation/20-things-that-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/

I often write about the things I believe we all should be doing, trying or experimenting with in order to maximize our success and happiness. However, it’s not always the things we do that make the biggest difference in our lives; it’s often the things we avoid doing that have the biggest effect. As human beings, we have a strong aversion to not doing; we feel that in order to produce results, there must be an initial action.

However, because we are almost always doing something, piling on more and more often has a negative effect, rather than a positive one. Among the mentally strong, there are several actions that are avoided in order to produce the greatest benefit in the shortest period of time.

These actions are those that the mentally strong avoid, and that we should consider adapting as our own:

1. Dwelling On The Past
Mentally strong individuals focus on the present moment and on the near future. They understand that the past is out of our control and the far future is about as predictable as the weather this winter.

2. Remaining In Their Comfort Zone
The comfort zone is a dangerous place, a dark abyss where anyone who remains there for too long loses his or herself entirely. Staying within your comfort zone is giving up on life.

3. Not Listening To The Opinions Of Others
Only the foolish believe themselves to be sufficient in all regards. When it comes to brainstorming, ideas can’t so much be forced as they can be caught. A good idea is a good idea, regardless of whether or not you came up with it. Don’t let your ego get the better of you; if someone has great advice to give, take it.

4. Avoiding Change
What the mentally strong understand that the mentally weak do not is that change is unavoidable. Trying to avoid the inevitable is pointless. Therefore, trying to avoid change is pointless; it’s a mere waste of time and energy.

5. Keeping A Closed Mind
You don’t know everything. Even the things you believe yourself to know are likely to not be entirely true. If you keep a closed mind, you are preventing yourself from learning new material. If you stop learning, you stop living.

6. Letting Others Make Decisions For Them
Only you should be making your own decisions; you can’t allow others to make them for you. All this does is shift the responsibility from you to someone else, but the only person failing in the end is you. If you don’t have the courage to fail, then you don’t have the courage to succeed.

7. Getting Jealous Over The Successes Of Others
When others succeed, you should be happy. If they can do it, so can you. The success of others does not, in any way, lessen the chances of you succeeding. If anything, it should motivate you to keep pushing forward.

8. Thinking About The High Possibility Of Failure
Our thoughts control our perspective; our perspective controls our results. The mentally strong understand this and use this to their advantage. There’s always the chance you may fail, but as long as there is the chance you may succeed, it’s worth trying.

9. Feeling Sorry For Themselves
Sh*t happens. Life can be hard. People get hurt; others die. Life isn’t all roses and butterflies. You will fall off that horse again and again and again. The question is, are you strong enough to keep getting back on it?

10. Focusing On Their Weaknesses
Although working on our weaknesses does have its benefits, it’s more important to focus on banking on our strengths. The most well-rounded person is not the person that gets the furthest in life. Being average in all regards makes you average. However, mastering a certain skillset or trait will allow you to beat the competition with less effort.

11. Trying To Please People
A job well done is a job well done, no matter who is judging the final product. You can’t please everybody, but you can always manage to do your very best.

12. Blaming Themselves For Things Outside Their Control
The mentally strong know the things they can control, understand the things they cannot control, and avoid even thinking about that which is completely out of their hands.

13. Being Impatient
Patience isn’t just a virtue; it is the virtue. Most people don’t fail because they aren’t good enough, or aren’t capable of winning or succeeding. Most people fail because they are impatient and give up before their time has come.

14. Being Misunderstood
Communication is key in any properly functioning system. When it comes to people, things get a bit more complicated. Simply stating information is never enough; if the receiving party misunderstands you, your message is not being properly relayed. The mentally strong do their best to be understood and have the patience to clear up misunderstandings.

15. Feeling Like You’re Owed
You aren’t owed anything in life. You were born; the rest is up to you. Life doesn’t owe you anything. Others don’t owe you anything. If you want something in life, you only owe it to yourself to go out and get it. In life, there are no handouts.

16. Repeating Mistakes
Make a mistake once, okay. Make a mistake twice… not so okay. Make the same mistake a third time, you may need to consider giving up alcohol and drugs. You’re either stupid or permanently high.

17. Giving Into Their Fears
The world can be a scary place. Some things frighten us with good cause, but most of our fears are illogical. If you know that you want to try something, try it. If you’re scared, then understand that being scared of failing must mean that succeeding means a whole lot to you.

18. Acting Without Calculating
The mentally strong know better than to act before completely understanding the situation at hand. If you have time to ponder over something and cover all your bases, then do so. Not doing so is pure laziness.

19. Refusing Help From Others
You’re not Superman; you can’t do it all. Even if you can, why should you? If others are offering to help, let them help. Be social. Listen to their ideas and watch how they do things. You may learn something. If not, then you can teach them something and do what humans are meant to do: socialize.

20. Throwing In The Towel
The biggest weakness in all of humanity is giving up — calling it quits, throwing in the towel. The mentally strong go about things in such a way. Only do things if they are important to you; forget the things that aren’t important to you. If they’re important to you, then pursue them until you succeed. No exceptions, ever.

nos 21:Mentally Strong People Don’t PCC. they go for real bang.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

You are worse: you are Krafty a.k.a hotbot.

This hotbot moron has a similar trait with vile kopisai adopting online persona as taxi drivers.....
Dun what's their sick association with cabbies...

 

[escher]

This is the biggest character flaw of the anti PAP brigade. They have this impression that the government owes them a living and they blame all their failures on the PAP instead of looking in the mirror for the source of their inadequacies.

You fucking bullshit again

I am the anti PAP squad and all my friends are that as well.
None of us ever feel those bastard PAPs owe us anything.

I hate and we all hate the PAP taking from us what is not theirs to take in the first place, our money

All we want is that they not steal and rob us of our money
We do much better job looking after our money than PAP ever can

The only thing PAP bastards do is to laugh all the way to their fucking banks with money that is not theirs to start with

 

[wMulew]

The list seem to be a list of habits those loser opposition supporting retards in this forum is doing on a daily basis

 

[AceFrehley]

The list seem to be a list of habits those loser opposition supporting retards in this forum is doing on a daily basis

See post #11 by me. Your whole PAP / YPAP IB lost to me and my syndicates. Really molanyong. Awww... don't be sore, just get use to losing.

 

[Thick Face Black Heart]

Mentally strong people don't create multiple clone accounts to "complain" about how the ISD is coming after them.

 

[zeddy]

exactly!!!

He is a sinkie!!! come on..you mean you just joined this forum today????

ask yourself, what have i done that has harm others immensely.. did anyone get hurt , cheated or abused?

the only one who is feared by all my posts are the PAPs...

Err its ok Tonychat..

Knowing your past history of flip flopping like a prata, I think I rather give QXD the benefit of the doubt as he was gracious enough to helped a bro that I knew about things in Australia when that Bro first arrived there with his young family..

 

[CheeByeKiaTonyChat]

Err its ok Tonychat..

Knowing your past history of flip flopping like a prata, I think I rather give QXD the benefit of the doubt as he was gracious enough to helped a bro that I knew about things in Australia when that Bro first arrived there with his young family..

Bro Zeddy,

Fucktard tonychat is a habitual liar. Remember he claimed to be in Thailand all these while and then when the previous riots started, he claimed never to have left Singapore. Also that fucktard started a poll to decide if he will stay in this forum and immediately withdraw his decision when he realised that the poll wants him to fuck off?

What about claiming to be a 'vegan' and then flip flop prata-ing again when realising 'vegan' means actually no dairy products including eggs. This guy is exactly what QXD describes.

 

[zeddy]

Bro Zeddy,

Fucktard tonychat is a habitual liar. Remember he claimed to be in Thailand all these while and then when the previous riots started, he claimed never to have left Singapore. Also that fucktard started a poll to decide if he will stay in this forum and immediately withdraw his decision when he realised that the poll wants him to fuck off?

What about claiming to be a 'vegan' and then flip flop prata-ing again when realising 'vegan' means actually no dairy products including eggs. This guy is exactly what QXD describes.

He..he..He.. I was just playing along with Tonychat when I asked him about QXD accusations and I expected him to say that QXD lied and true enough he did.. But knowing that QXD ever helped a Bro that I knew, never once I doubted QXD's credibility..

The truth really hurts for that CB Kia..

 

[SockPuppet]

Think everyone should try to make the best decisions for themselves and stop blaming others for the situations that they are in.
It is about taking responsibility for your actions, mistakes and wise moves and unwise moves.
Be it in property investment, career or otherwise.