his message to PLUs in love, be brave to make a commitment:
Chong Kee Tan
November 4 near San Francisco, CA, United States.
Dear friends and family, THANK YOU so much for all your well wishes and support. For more years that I can remember, especially during wedding dinners, I had thought marriage would never happen to me. I was told my relationship had to be kept out of sight.
When Svetlana pronounced us married on Friday, it was hard to take in. Even now, it still hasn't quite sunken in that we are a legally married couple. I catch myself wondering when they will take it all away.
And being married feels different. We may have lived together for the last 5 1/2 years, and have told each other countless times we will be together forever, but doing so publicly means that now our family and friends expect us to love and cherish each other too. I like that kind of accountability
So thank you for your outpouring support. It really helped to make us feel that it is real. That our love for each other is seen and acknowledged. It means a lot to us. Thank you!