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Can you love without lust?

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Men can lust for woman without loving them but can we love them without lust? I'm not talking about women whom we are related to. Those are different kind of love.

Can a relationship be sustained without any lust? Any married bros here can advise?
 
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No way. Tat's the way the hormones are designed.
 
If I want a good time, great conversation without the premise/promise/potential of sex, I'd rather hang out with guy friends.
If I want companionship, I'd get a pet. It's cheaper too.

Without the vagina, a woman is worthless to a man.
 
Very insightful LB. But can women love us without lust?


If I want a good time, great conversation without the premise/promise/potential of sex, I'd rather hang out with guy friends.
If I want companionship, I'd get a pet. It's cheaper too.

Without the vagina, a woman is worthless to a man.
 
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Men can lust for woman without loving them but can we love them without lust?

Can a relationship be sustained without any lust?

This one must ask Cheng Ho. Once kacha ! Balls drop and that's the end of lust. Caution ! There's no turning back. Most men who did not went for kacha will still be horny. Don't you ever think of settling for a Platonic relationship. Impossible !!!
 
If I want a good time, great conversation without the premise/promise/potential of sex, I'd rather hang out with guy friends.
If I want companionship, I'd get a pet. It's cheaper too.

Without the vagina, a woman is worthless to a man.

sad but true. even Woman's Charter recognise this, marriage can be void if both never have sex for sometime.
 
Men can lust for woman without loving them but can we love them without lust? I'm not talking about women whom we are related to. Those are different kind of love.

Can a relationship be sustained without any lust? Any married bros here can advise?

Yes & no. depending on how discipline one is...for it is never easy, man & woman is like both end of the magnet poles, "One North, the other South", it naturally "come together". To maintain a relationship to keep lust from evolving, there must a "buffer" to prevent the "poles" from coming together.
 
Old chinese saying, 男人为性而爱,女人为爱而性。
 
This one must ask Cheng Ho. Once kacha ! Balls drop and that's the end of lust. Caution ! There's no turning back. Most men who did not went for kacha will still be horny. Don't you ever think of settling for a Platonic relationship. Impossible !!!

It is the smell, it is so empowering that, PINKY just could not resist, the rest is HIS STORY!
 
you should focus on your study, which primary school are you in, i am going to report to your form teacher!:D:p

Very insightful LB. But can women love us without lust?
 
Men can lust for woman without loving them but can we love them without lust? I'm not talking about women whom we are related to. Those are different kind of love.

Can a relationship be sustained without any lust? Any married bros here can advise?



hi there


1. fat kid!
2. machiam some old uncles that love his "yellow-faced" sloppy wifey loh:D
3. for so many years living together there is of course some kind affection mah.
4. all the cooking, foc bonking, washing & bearing the uncles kids.
5. all these do matter & count leh:p
6. when the wifey gets out of shape & things start to get stale & routine, there is only companionship.
 
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