Marriage to a Muslim Man...

[BuiKia]

Quite sad...but many appear pious only.

I am a foreigner married to a Malaysian and have children. My husband, a Muslim, is 10 years older than me.

He had divorced his wife to marry me and had promised me a bright future.

I am not from a well-to-do background, so I thought it was a chance I would take.

But when I moved to this country, I found I had entered into his dysfunctional family.

I don't like his family at all.

My father-in-law always turns up at my house unannounced.

My in-laws always show that they are religious people but they always say bad things about their other in-laws to me.

But what I really cannot stand is my husband's stinginess.

When I argue about that with him, he tells me his siblings are like him too.

Unfortunately, he uses his money on others, but not me and my children.

My husband has a bad habit of spending his time with his girlfriends and on the computer.

We seldom talk at home.

I desperately want to get out of this marriage because I don't have any love for my husband any more.

I'm just staying with him for the sake of our children. What should I do?

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[Jah_rastafar_I]

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Yup super fucked up.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

This must be a false misleading report. There have always been glowing comments on our Malay pals.

I believe the qualities include:
- friendly
- kind
- helpful

I doubt they are stingy too. They are always buying large LED tvs at Courts to share with their family.

 

[laksaboy]

My father-in-law always turns up at my house unannounced.

The Melayu think that is the norm. Most other civilized folks think that's just being impolite.

Will it kill you to make a phone call in advance and inform of your intent to visit?

Even the PAP politicians have the courtesy to send flyers informing of their visit during election walkabouts.

Here's the remedy to solve this problem when some relative, friend or co-worker turns up unannounced: don't let him/her in. Don't even greet them. Let him/her wait at the doorstep until he/she leaves.

Your own father, father-in-law, boss or president, don't give a fuck. If you're rude to me, I'll return the rudeness.

 

[seesuatah]

What about having many girlfriends and adultery?

Acceptable in Islam?

 

[Narong Wongwan]

What about having many girlfriends and adultery?

Acceptable in Islam?

you born yesterday?
4 is the limit.......if you are rich enough there are ways to sidestep this 4 wives limit too......

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

This must be a false misleading report. There have always been glowing comments on our Malay pals.

I believe the qualities include:
- friendly
- kind
- helpful

I doubt they are stingy too. They are always buying large LED tvs at Courts to share with their family.

You can even double confirm with our resident malay whoami who will give glowing reports on the nice malays. I think it must be a mistake. The editor in charge must have changed it from chinese to muslim cos he's a racist. This must be it.

 

[Kuailan]

If he can divorce his first wife and convince you to marry him!

Divorcing you is nothing anymore, so he saved money for his own used

b'cos he take you as an outsider now, and also he got what he wanted

i.e. sex from u, children already born, so no more big deal! time to look for the

next one!

 

[cathylmg]

The Melayu think that is the norm. Most other civilized folks think that's just being impolite.

Will it kill you to make a phone call in advance and inform of your intent to visit?

Even the PAP politicians have the courtesy to send flyers informing of their visit during election walkabouts.

Here's the remedy to solve this problem when some relative, friend or co-worker turns up unannounced: don't let him/her in. Don't even greet them. Let him/her wait at the doorstep until he/she leaves.

Your own father, father-in-law, boss or president, don't give a fuck. If you're rude to me, I'll return the rudeness.

This one very easy to solve. Just joint an mlm. They will stay away from u as far as possible! LOL!