Walao eh, please don't pichar their lobang lah.
You ask them to have smaller building, stay in smaller condo, sell the sentosa cove one, etc etc, doesn't all this defeat the purpose?
If they do all these things, then what for ask people to get a second part time job or have garage sale or go for less expensive holiday?
Please do have some consideration for them lah, especially in their time of need.
You don't want them to feel that it was all for nothing...............