3 steps to decide whether she's the girl of your life

[Clone]

Being henpecked will actually make for a happy marriage, at least a smooth one if not happy.

There was once a few friends were discussing all the couples we knew, we agreed that the smooth marriages are usually those where either party is henpecked or cockpecked.

The sad truth is that most of those people who look for leverage tend to remain single.

I agree. A lopsided balance of power makes a smooth marriage. The temperament of the person should determine whether he is the pecker or the peckee. I'd see myself more of a pecker.

Seriously, what is the modern man's leverage over woman? Like men they are well educated and able to be financially independent. The edge they have over us is ability to bear offsprings (with a help of a sperm donor of course). Men risk becoming irrelevant in the modern world.

I wonder being handsome is still a leverage for the modern man? Or only money talks?

 

[Marican]

Wow bro,thanks for the comprehensive checklists.You sure know your pussies well:p

17 Warning Signs of a Lousy Girlfriend

You know the girl you're thinking about marrying is wrong for you if she hasno friends, your siblings don't like her, and her credit history doesn't checkout. Sometimes the best words of wisdom don't come from academics or scientistswith impressive titles and educational credentials. Sometimes the best advicecomes from people who have been there and done that. Such is the case with arecent letter published in the syndicated Dear Abby advice column that listed17 signs that your girlfriend is NOT the one you should marry.

A married man who said his wife now wanted a divorce passed along tips forthe not-yet-married. If you see these red flags, he advises, dump the girl:

1. If your parents or siblings have doubts about her, pay attention. Listenand check it out.

2. If your intended has nothing good to say about her ex, beware. This is apattern. Divorce is rarely only one person's fault.

3. If her children have nothing to do with her, do not believe her if shesays her ex brainwashed them against her. My stepchildren have told me it wasbecause they hated her, and they have good reasons.

4. Look closely at her credit and job history. They are sure predictors ofwhat your life will be like.

5. If she's over 30 and has no money, do not let her move in with you, anddon't marry her until she's financially solvent. If she has any respect for you(and herself), she'll insist on it.

6. Be sure in your heart that you can live with her AS IS. You cannot changeanother person.

7. This is a biggie: Beware if she has no friends. It is not true that theyall chose to side with her ex.

8. If your friends dislike her, pay attention. This is also true if shehates your friends.

9.If she has more than one beer and still drinks, run!

10. If she is one personality at work or with others, and another personalone with you, run.

11. If she has nothing to do with her parents, investigate why. Don't takeher word for it.

12. If she's an expert at everything and brags a lot, understand that shewill turn off a lot of people, eventually maybe even you.

13. If she has sexual problems, go with her to a doctor before you marryher. Believe me, her problem will become your problem.

14. If she is emotionally or verbally abusive, it will only get worse.Yelling, name-calling and glowering are classic signs of an abuser.

15. If she is never wrong and never apologizes, everything will be"your fault" forever. And after years of hearing it, you may evenstart to accept the blame.

16. If she does something wrong and says, "That wouldn't have happenedif you hadn't ( )," that's another sign of an abuser.

17. And if she's mean to children, pets or animals, recognize that she'spathological, and the next victim could be you

 

[Rogue Trader]

Wow bro,thanks for the comprehensive checklists.You sure know your pussies well:p

They're on the web lah. Was getting in to a long distance relationship many years ago and was seeking wisdom from the internet :p .. Found them sensible and saved them for future reference...

I still have to say it's not an exact science. The girl passed all the checks but still turned out to be a psycho!

 

[Rogue Trader]

I wonder being handsome is still a leverage for the modern man? Or only money talks?

From the pure "evolution psychology" point of view, being handsome and rich (implying smart/successful) might not be of any advantage for the man.. The woman knows he'll attract competition from other females. All she needs from the handsome/smart guy is his "seed" to ensure a strong strain of off spring -- which is a one time transaction.

In fact, a fat ugly guy is less likely to stray and more likely to perform nesting duties.

 

[no_faith]

bro, try her first, if she's good in bed and gives you a good blow (comes in handy when u need quick fix), u can consider.
If she cooks well and serves you, this one pruss10 points, coz no need to eat out.
If she has a good heart and make her cry many many, means she cares alot about you and your feelings.

if she passes these 3 stages, ok this one worth it la.

imho, what you have mentioned is before marriage. After marriage, another story.

 

[red amoeba]

a quick litmus test - book a holiday - then purposely forget to book something - or screw up something.

see how she react / behave.

for ex, book a cheapo hotel instead of a 4-star hotel
suggest to cook iso eat out

stay away for at least one week - eg: camping / backpacking.

if you manage to survive without quarrelling / breaking up, you are 80% there.

why 80% because 20% of woman is randomness, so random even fellow women don't understand.

 

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[streetsmart73]

Henpecked and cockpeck are for sinkie marriage, not for real human marriage.

hi there


1. hahaha!
2. this is damn bloody funny too.

 

[streetsmart73]

hi there


1. fat kid, this is chemistry.
2. and if such chemistry wears off.
3. next change, please.
4. this is my take.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

No need play games or Conduct tests or Do evaluation.
If you meet the one you will know.

 

[jw5]

I still have to say it's not an exact science. The girl passed all the checks but still turned out to be a psycho!

One of your checks was that she must be a psycho?

 

[jw5]

a quick litmus test - book a holiday - then purposely forget to book something - or screw up something.

one of my litmus tests was that she unilaterally went to book a timeshare which we were unlikely to ever use.

 

[Rogue Trader]

If you meet the one you will know.

Surely there must be some "indicator" to "know"