You should know this very well that China will always use their Bullying attitude (against any country that do not agree with their views) instead of the non-confrontational Coercing attitude. Just look at how they banned commodity imports from Australia when the latter insisted on digging into the origin of Covid.
I agree that the Chinese could be more magnanimous. Trouble even though they have risen to big power status, they still harbour a 'victim complex' due to 150 years of bullying and humiliation by foreign powers, hence the need to always assert their position and resort to punitive action. It will take time for the Chinese to adjust their mentality and be more at ease with their status.
Be that as it may, I believe in neutrality. But if you push me to select a power to ally with, I'd select the Chinese. 600 years of land grab, exploitation and disempowerment of native peoples by the Europeans have taught me a lesson: never trust the white man. 700 million white men still rule over 8 billion people today and own more than 90% of the planet's wealth.