I am not desperate for a relationship with her. It's just we seem to have similar interests, like distance swimming, food and intellectual thoughts on minimalist lifestyles, careers, finances, etc.
This lady is a year younger than me. I got to know her sometime back. Like me, she does distance swimming as well. It just so happened that one evening in the pool, we were unintentionally using each other as our respective pacers for our 5km swim.
After my swim, I complimented that she was a good swimmer despite being a female, as she had managed to keep pace with me within 2 to 3 body lengths, within under 2 hours timing.
From then on, we chatted each time we see each other at the pool. I guess I did sort of miss her presence on days she wasn't at the pool.
Tonight, after our respective evening long distance swim workout, I suggested dinner at a nearby prata shop, to reward our burnt calories. She accepted without hesitation.
My assessment of her after roti prata and teh tarik is as follows :
Appearance :
She's the Tomboy type. I have never seen her in a skirt or dress before. Always in black working trousers. However, she has a perfect swimmer built body with decent bust size. I did ask her during dinner why she has short hair given that she's still relatively young and attractive. She avoided my question and brushed it off, citing swimming, hot weather and convenience as excuses. I have already examined her closely, in and outside the swimming pool. She does possess many aspects of a beautiful lady if she reconstructs her feminine side.
Relationship Status :
She is supposedly unattached. But I don't know. I have never asked her. I suspect that she's a lesbian. My guess should be 95% accurate. I believe her mind seems to be in a severe mental lockup state because she has often told me repeatedly that men are unreliable, untrustworthy, compared to women, and in her own words tonight "...women treasures loyalty and unfettered devotion to each other when they are together in a relationship..".
To be truthful, I know nothing about lesbianism or lesbian's characteristics or behaviors. However, I believe she would, and I want to be, her close trusted friend. More importantly, I want to unlock her mind w.r.t the beauty of a heterosexual relationship, as opposed to lesbianism.
Future Opportunities with her :
I am unsure what the future holds (if any) for both of us. She seems to be the type I like, intellectually, coolness, and with similar interests. My gut feel reckons that we will make a great heterosexual couple if we two become one in the near future. But who knows. Fate cannot be mandated by me. Man proposes, God disposes.
Question :
Does anyone in this forum have had a relationship with an ex-lebian before? What are her chances of "re-offending" once she agrees to heterosexual relationship.
Any constructive comments on my observations on this lady?
This lady is a year younger than me. I got to know her sometime back. Like me, she does distance swimming as well. It just so happened that one evening in the pool, we were unintentionally using each other as our respective pacers for our 5km swim.
After my swim, I complimented that she was a good swimmer despite being a female, as she had managed to keep pace with me within 2 to 3 body lengths, within under 2 hours timing.
From then on, we chatted each time we see each other at the pool. I guess I did sort of miss her presence on days she wasn't at the pool.
Tonight, after our respective evening long distance swim workout, I suggested dinner at a nearby prata shop, to reward our burnt calories. She accepted without hesitation.
My assessment of her after roti prata and teh tarik is as follows :
Appearance :
She's the Tomboy type. I have never seen her in a skirt or dress before. Always in black working trousers. However, she has a perfect swimmer built body with decent bust size. I did ask her during dinner why she has short hair given that she's still relatively young and attractive. She avoided my question and brushed it off, citing swimming, hot weather and convenience as excuses. I have already examined her closely, in and outside the swimming pool. She does possess many aspects of a beautiful lady if she reconstructs her feminine side.
Relationship Status :
She is supposedly unattached. But I don't know. I have never asked her. I suspect that she's a lesbian. My guess should be 95% accurate. I believe her mind seems to be in a severe mental lockup state because she has often told me repeatedly that men are unreliable, untrustworthy, compared to women, and in her own words tonight "...women treasures loyalty and unfettered devotion to each other when they are together in a relationship..".
To be truthful, I know nothing about lesbianism or lesbian's characteristics or behaviors. However, I believe she would, and I want to be, her close trusted friend. More importantly, I want to unlock her mind w.r.t the beauty of a heterosexual relationship, as opposed to lesbianism.
Future Opportunities with her :
I am unsure what the future holds (if any) for both of us. She seems to be the type I like, intellectually, coolness, and with similar interests. My gut feel reckons that we will make a great heterosexual couple if we two become one in the near future. But who knows. Fate cannot be mandated by me. Man proposes, God disposes.
Question :
Does anyone in this forum have had a relationship with an ex-lebian before? What are her chances of "re-offending" once she agrees to heterosexual relationship.
Any constructive comments on my observations on this lady?
