"I have been married since I was 19.
"I first got married to a man who was 9 years older than me.
"After dating for a year, he proposed to me at East Coast with a rose and a diamond ring.
"Initially, he treated me like a queen. He brought me out for tours, bought me expensive stuff and restaurant dinners always.
"He was just a layman but he loved me well and never failed to love me less each day when we were dating.
"We bought a resale flat together. We build up our love nest together with a sweet study room where we placed all our happy memories in the form of pictures and the greeting cards we gave each other on occasions.
"After one year of marriage, things changed. He started having an affair with a PRC lady 12 years older than me whom she know from a night club called China Doll.
"I broke down completely and from 55kg, my weight dropped down to 40kg within 3 months.
"I felt as if he had brought me to heaven, only to then throw me down to hell.
"I tried to commit suicide but failed.
"He forced me to sign on the 3 years separation letter and I signed. After three years, we were officially divorced and sold the flat in the open market.
"Next, I met my second hubby and got married after three years of dating.
"Things went well and smooth and everything seemed to be perfect.
"We got a son after our first year of marriage.
"After three years of marriage, however, he changed.
"He started to go missing and went on tours around the world without informing me.
"He gambled and lost almost half a million dollars. I had to go around and beg others to lend me money to save him.
"He went drinking, got drunk almost everyday and gambled on and off and went on tours as if he had no family. One day, my friend caught him hanging out with a PRC girl and when my friend approached him he yelled at her and ran away.
"I took care of his parents and my child as part of my duties as a wife.
"I did my very best to be a great wife but he always abandoned my child and I and he'd go touring around with girls from China without a single SMS or phone call to inform me.
"After eight years, we divorced and sold the flat in open market.
"He needed money to clear his debts so he couldn't let us continue staying there.
"I got control and custody of my child, and bought a resale flat off the open market which cost me almost half a million dollars.
"I now have to work until I'm 65 years old just to pay for the HDB flat alone.
"I am 32 this years and yet I have gotten divorced -- twice.
"But, nothing can bring me down. I will continue living my life and be happy that I am together with my sensible child.
"I will give him the best I can and never abandon him at all cost.
"Thumbs up to women and hope all women who're facing problem can be strong like me.
"No matter what happens, we still have our family, friends, and work.
"I may have had two failed marriages within 12 years, which is a big blow, but I believe times is the best medicine.
"I have a lovely child who's five years old, a caring sister and the support of my family, and a group of close friends who're always around me to give me encouragement and support mentally.
"Without them, I wouldn't be alive. They motivate my life and helped me understand that a failed marriage doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
"Although it has happened to me twice, I believe there will be sunshine after the rain.
"There are times when I thought of just dying as I couldn't handle any more stress and the torture from my marriage. Thank God I always have my thoughts on my child always. I love him so much that I can't bear to leave him alone.
"I have to stay alive and work hard for his future.
"I wanna groom my child to become the best person he can be and I wanna give him all my love and the best of my abilities.
"I brought him to this world and i got to be responsible to him forever.
"There are always colleagues, friends and even relatives who engage in gossip behind my back about why I got divorced twice and blah blah blah.
"I am responsible for my own life and nobody will understand what I have gone through before more than myself.
"I will never bother about what others say about me behind my back. No need to explain anything to them.
"I still doll myself up when I go to work everyday and I bring my child for holidays and I renovated my house to give my son a comfortable life.
"I teach him everyday about life. Every Saturday is always family day with my son when we will go shopping, hunt for food or just gather at my relative's house.
"Life is happy and peaceful. I count my blessings and not my miseries.
"I do have suitors now but I still choose to be alone as I want to focus on my son and groom him well.
"He's always a happy-go-lucky boy who never fails to make me laugh everyday.
"I thanks God for giving me all these and I want to give my blessings to all women whose marriages have not been smooth-sailing.
"Stay positive and look at the bright side always.
"Stay positive no matter what happen as life is not just about all these."
"I first got married to a man who was 9 years older than me.
"After dating for a year, he proposed to me at East Coast with a rose and a diamond ring.
"Initially, he treated me like a queen. He brought me out for tours, bought me expensive stuff and restaurant dinners always.
"He was just a layman but he loved me well and never failed to love me less each day when we were dating.
"We bought a resale flat together. We build up our love nest together with a sweet study room where we placed all our happy memories in the form of pictures and the greeting cards we gave each other on occasions.
"After one year of marriage, things changed. He started having an affair with a PRC lady 12 years older than me whom she know from a night club called China Doll.
"I broke down completely and from 55kg, my weight dropped down to 40kg within 3 months.
"I felt as if he had brought me to heaven, only to then throw me down to hell.
"I tried to commit suicide but failed.
"He forced me to sign on the 3 years separation letter and I signed. After three years, we were officially divorced and sold the flat in the open market.
"Next, I met my second hubby and got married after three years of dating.
"Things went well and smooth and everything seemed to be perfect.
"We got a son after our first year of marriage.
"After three years of marriage, however, he changed.
"He started to go missing and went on tours around the world without informing me.
"He gambled and lost almost half a million dollars. I had to go around and beg others to lend me money to save him.
"He went drinking, got drunk almost everyday and gambled on and off and went on tours as if he had no family. One day, my friend caught him hanging out with a PRC girl and when my friend approached him he yelled at her and ran away.
"I took care of his parents and my child as part of my duties as a wife.
"I did my very best to be a great wife but he always abandoned my child and I and he'd go touring around with girls from China without a single SMS or phone call to inform me.
"After eight years, we divorced and sold the flat in open market.
"He needed money to clear his debts so he couldn't let us continue staying there.
"I got control and custody of my child, and bought a resale flat off the open market which cost me almost half a million dollars.
"I now have to work until I'm 65 years old just to pay for the HDB flat alone.
"I am 32 this years and yet I have gotten divorced -- twice.
"But, nothing can bring me down. I will continue living my life and be happy that I am together with my sensible child.
"I will give him the best I can and never abandon him at all cost.
"Thumbs up to women and hope all women who're facing problem can be strong like me.
"No matter what happens, we still have our family, friends, and work.
"I may have had two failed marriages within 12 years, which is a big blow, but I believe times is the best medicine.
"I have a lovely child who's five years old, a caring sister and the support of my family, and a group of close friends who're always around me to give me encouragement and support mentally.
"Without them, I wouldn't be alive. They motivate my life and helped me understand that a failed marriage doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
"Although it has happened to me twice, I believe there will be sunshine after the rain.
"There are times when I thought of just dying as I couldn't handle any more stress and the torture from my marriage. Thank God I always have my thoughts on my child always. I love him so much that I can't bear to leave him alone.
"I have to stay alive and work hard for his future.
"I wanna groom my child to become the best person he can be and I wanna give him all my love and the best of my abilities.
"I brought him to this world and i got to be responsible to him forever.
"There are always colleagues, friends and even relatives who engage in gossip behind my back about why I got divorced twice and blah blah blah.
"I am responsible for my own life and nobody will understand what I have gone through before more than myself.
"I will never bother about what others say about me behind my back. No need to explain anything to them.
"I still doll myself up when I go to work everyday and I bring my child for holidays and I renovated my house to give my son a comfortable life.
"I teach him everyday about life. Every Saturday is always family day with my son when we will go shopping, hunt for food or just gather at my relative's house.
"Life is happy and peaceful. I count my blessings and not my miseries.
"I do have suitors now but I still choose to be alone as I want to focus on my son and groom him well.
"He's always a happy-go-lucky boy who never fails to make me laugh everyday.
"I thanks God for giving me all these and I want to give my blessings to all women whose marriages have not been smooth-sailing.
"Stay positive and look at the bright side always.
"Stay positive no matter what happen as life is not just about all these."
