most unkers on sbf are here for fun to stretch legs to find release for pressure and occasionally stretch labia for pleasure. not serious lah. you can also relax, lie down and stretch your neck to let things and thongs go. no point getting uptight about what others say. just chill and unkers here will like you. also as a woman learn how to tease. teasing with sarcasm and satire is the best way to get back at others.