My GF asks me a difficult question today

[bigcockman]

my humble opion it is all about give give and take.

if u are comfortable with your children surname being your wife surname so be it dont let anyone influnce u at the end of the day its your own family.

if u dont feel comfortable and againts it u better tell her it is impossible to follow the way she wanted it if she really want her way then it is up to u either u give in or u can tell her to find a husband who willing to give the child her surname. this there a risk u guys will break up.

me a malay and my dear wife a chinese and when my daugther born her surname is my dad name do i care what other think? no i dont its my life and my family lucky for meboth parent and inlaw very supportive

Thanks for your personal info.

 

[eatshitndie]

Is this serious or are you pulling my leg like many others here in this funny forum?

it’s all based on genetic science. we are all africans.

 

[red amoeba]

U and ur sperm determine the sex of the baby. That’s y he or she has to follow your surname.

 

[bigcockman]

it’s all based on genetic science. we are all africans.

Ok Sir, I believe you then as I don't feel like searching the web to verify what you said.

 

[bigcockman]

U and ur sperm determine the sex of the baby. That’s y he or she has to follow your surname.

As I said before, she will say she and her womb took care of the baby for 9 months!

 

[eatshitndie]

Ok Sir, I believe you then as I don't feel like searching the web to verify what you said.

 

[kaninabuchaojibye]

Any suggestions for me?

my suggestion to u is to dump her now
dump her later (after marriage) means divorce
= 50% or more lost of your assets

 

[Confuseous]

No "correct" answer. Just follow your heart.

 

[A Singaporean]

I think she intend to have a baby with someone else but use u to bring up the baby. Suggest you follow her and see if she is eating outside.

 

[salim]

Suspect this is a ruse by cheating spouses (female) to get around the problem. Don't know how prevalent it is here,
but there is such thing as having an open relationship among couples in the west.
Always have a DNA test before putting down your name in the child's certificate.

 

[rodent2005]

Pretend to agree then quietly look for a more cooperative girlfriend.