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Maybe I am wrong
- Thread starter MovieStar
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Welcome to the world!
dont deny it, release your anger and you will find smthg more powerful than the force
go bakuke into ginfreely face and release it.
It depends on the other human being you are dealing with. The most important factor is usually upbringing. Other factors include education, social influence, intelligence, self awareness, etc.
Sis you referring to real life or the cyberspace ?
If this is spoken by Gin, I see a ray of hope. There is a glimmer of light at the end of a dark tunnel.
Both. Chiew I admitted again.
it's probably the headlight of my mountain bike pushing your subaru wrx to speed up.
Well, maybe I am wrong ....
What took you so long to learn such a simple truth? I learnt it in primary school.
You may be nice to others but others may be nasty to you.
But still, being nice to all is a virtue that will bring you a good destination for the next life.
Make sure the lights not from oncoming train.
POSTED BY KAYLA MATTHEWS
I was labeled as the nice girl my entire life. Mostly, because I was shy and quiet and no one knew how to handle that so the kids at school just said I was nice, and it stuck.
Looking back at this I’ve realized how detrimental it can be to hold yourself to this standard.
When you focus on being nice you end up ignoring how you really feel and what you want, and you let people mistreat you because you’re too nice to tell them to f*** off (at least these have been some of my experiences).
I think many nice people like myself get caught up because we think we’re being good people. We believe we’re doing some kind of service to those around us by holding back our criticisms and saying something purely nice instead.
You can have strong opinions and still be a kind person. You can stand up for yourself and still care about what someone has to say. Human beings are dynamic like that.
It’s not in anyone’s best interest if you go out of your way to be nice. In fact, being nice can be detrimental to you and those around you in a number of ways.
Interesting .... I think it is good to have a balanced approach to life ... just nice
I was labeled as the nice girl my entire life. Mostly, because I was shy and quiet and no one knew how to handle that so the kids at school just said I was nice, and it stuck.
Looking back at this I’ve realized how detrimental it can be to hold yourself to this standard.
When you focus on being nice you end up ignoring how you really feel and what you want, and you let people mistreat you because you’re too nice to tell them to f*** off (at least these have been some of my experiences).
I think many nice people like myself get caught up because we think we’re being good people. We believe we’re doing some kind of service to those around us by holding back our criticisms and saying something purely nice instead.
You can have strong opinions and still be a kind person. You can stand up for yourself and still care about what someone has to say. Human beings are dynamic like that.
It’s not in anyone’s best interest if you go out of your way to be nice. In fact, being nice can be detrimental to you and those around you in a number of ways.
Interesting .... I think it is good to have a balanced approach to life ... just nice
u oways tink u r nice 2 others ... but others r not of ze opinion dat u r nice 2 dem ...
when grabbed on one butt cheek, turn the other cheek. :p
Sis, my sincere advice.
For cyberspace just press the delete button.
for real life, unfriend them. Refer to my thread on "how to enjoy my own company".
I am just little disappointed on myself. Most probably.
Which I always believe for many years then in fact it is not like what I always think.
Maybe so. Then I feel sad.
I am all right. now I have more things to worried about.
Thank you. Chiew.
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